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5 Reasons Why Cobra Kai succeeds where others have failed.

As of the writing of this mytake, Cobra Kai season 5 has been released for less than 1 month in my opinion it was the best season yet. However, this got me thinking about other franchises. I'm a nerd with many other...

Animallover3742

Xper 5 Age: 34

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Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex boyfriend want to ruin my relationship when I told him many times I wanted to break up?

Hey, guys I don’t know where to start. But, recently my ex found out I have a boyfriend. Yesterday evening I received a message from him telling him to leave my boyfriend or he will message him and ruin my relationship....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is there a sign this guy at university likes me more than friend?

There’s guy at university who I have known since March I have a big crush on (he is an anxious guy) he was distant at first but still always talked to me & I think I jumped in too quickly as I asked him to hangout back in...

anoymousunistudent

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Girl's Behavior

Friend [F] texts me saying she had fun after eating dinner at a restaurant together, does she like me more than a friend?

Recently me and a friend went on a “dinner date” together (although I originally presumed it was entirely platonic). We usually only hang out in a group setting and this was the first time we made plans just the two of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Everyone wants a honest, sincere and genuine person so what does that mean when it comes to texting habits?

Simple statistical fact is most people read a text within 3 minutes of receiving it. Receiving it means, within 3 minutes of them seeing and then reading a message. The important thing is that some people are genuinely...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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Girl's Behavior

What does it mean when a girl likes you but doesn't give you her number?

What could she be hiding? Does it mean she likes you as a friend? It's understandable if you barely met that person but what if you've known each other for some time now (like more than 2 months)?

Greateye

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Other

Why are we judged harsher for being cowards than jerks?

While we get called out by both genders on that, if another guy does what I did, he's branded as a coward for a very long time. It doesn't stop. He's judged more than a jerk. Last year I ran and left my girlfriend alone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

RE: "But what are you doing to help black people? 'Your' people?" (My Ten Tips to Help "The Black Community")

So this turned into a whole thing from my last MyTake. The short version of this whole long discussion that was had over in this last post, was this unspoken obligation that "all black people are supposed to stick...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Guy's Behavior

Home Chats

"Why I Push Women Away": How One Man's Personal Revelation Linked Back to His Father's Affair

This is the real-life story of one man, and his journey to discover why he leaves. I listened to this last night, found it very interesting, and thought I'd share it with you today. "Why did I leave?" "Why did I lose...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Guy's Behavior

Does my guy friend of 3 years likes me back?

So, I’ve a friend since 12th grade. We haven’t really been close but recently things have changed a little bit. I didn’t like him all through 12th and 13th as I thought one of my ex female friend liked him, never even...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Does she like me or am I jumping to a conclusion?

I recently started talking to this girl who is the same age as me and about 2 hours away, we are both fifteen and we have been talking online. I was introduced to her by my friend who is a guy and they have known each...

JustKindaConfused

Xper 2 Age: 19

Relationships

Can you ever truly trust a cheater again? Do cheaters ever change?

One would think I would have learnt my lesson by now my boyfriend of 9 years had an online romance that lead to a one night stand. He denied it at first but the other woman was rightfully upset and told me ( she...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Aita? I need help I don't know if I’m in the wrong or if this is truly a disrespectful?

Me 21(f) my best friend 23(f) have been close friends for about 8 months. We are ying and Yang. She is very cold (black cat) I am more like a poodle sweet but can be fiesty. We usually get along but this has been really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Does my friend have feelings for me or not?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don’t think he does based off something that happened today, but I definitely have strong feelings for him. This is a long story so buckle in. I’ve been friends with this guy

I don’t think he does based off something that happened today, but I definitely have strong feelings for him.

This is a long story so buckle in.

I’ve been friends with this guy who’s almost 10 years older than me since I was 19. He went to back to college, and that’s how we met. We’ve always just been friends and never crossed any lines with each other and are part of the same group. He graduated 3 years ago and moved back to our hometown (turned out we’re from the same city), but we’ve stayed in touch and I see him almost every time I visit.

Last year we were hanging out and the topic eventually went to dating (not each other just in general). I described my perfect guy and he said something like, “oh like how we do?” And that’s the moment the light bulb clicked in my head. Ever since then I’ve been developing feelings for him. I felt like he wasn’t returning my feelings, so I backed off to try and readjust my emotions.

A couple months ago, he called me out the blue and we’ve been texting/calling/watching shows through zoom together practically every day the last few weeks. My feelings for him are back and are definitely getting stronger. I’m not sure how he feels. It’s like he’s hot and he’s cold, he’s definitely sending mixed signals. He’s asked me what my plans for grad school are, wanted to know if I’d move out of state to go to the same school as him, stays on the phone with me while I share my location while in traffic, etc. In a show we watched recently, they were talking about date ideas and he kept telling me he wanted to take me to those places, so I started to feel like he might feel the same as me. Today I finally had enough of wondering and texted him that I’m wanting his attention more and more, and he deflected it and made a joke.

When we met 8 years ago, I was just a kid and he was pushing 30. I’m worried he still thinks of me as a kid and doesn’t see me as the woman I’ve grown into.

Is he just a good friend? Does he want more? What do I do?

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Don’t fight your feelings, instead show your feelings!

Hello, I would like to add to my take about my manager. Don’t fight your feelings, show your married man/woman how you feel, if he’s your manager be careful, showing them how you feel is easier than pulling them aside,...

Bexxiib

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Guy's Behavior

Does he like me or does he know I like him?

So once my crush texted “Do you like someone” and I replied with not really and well maybe Idrk (I double texted) I asked if he liked someone and he didn’t answer. now he’s been avoiding me a lot more than usual but at...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

When I reflected about my ex boyfriend, I realised I should have left way earlier. I have realised that love really blinded me from his flaws.

In my past relationship, I had so many insecurities. I disliked his past and the risky behaviours he had taken when he was single. I projected my dislike to him and it caused a big strain on my mental health and...

Anon002019

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Relationships

Why my bestie ignores my messages?

I used to text my best female friend every day every thing was normal, untel she went to college and she started replying late, I thought that's because she is studying (she is online but she reply within 4 hourse then...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me as more than a friend?

Okay so I've been friends with this guy for a couple of months now and I developed a crush on him pretty recently. We all went out drinking one night (but I was sober) and for the whole night, everyone was asking if we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does this sound as more than friends with benefits?

Lately my friends with benefits is acting very strange. doing things like leaning in for kisses , hugging me for no reason, will call and ask how my day has been and ask how I’m doing, will offer to do diy around my house...

lunababy1

Xper 2 Age: 30