Hello, I would like to add to my take about my manager.
Don’t fight your feelings, show your married man/woman how you feel, if he’s your manager be careful, showing them how you feel is easier than pulling them aside, if you believe there’s a chance for you two in the future. But respect that they are married, don’t go running off to them and say “Hey, I’m in love with you!” Instead, give them glances, smile at them and if they willingly hug you, show it through a little squeeze while in a friendly embrace.
My favourite is hugging his waist and holding him a little tighter. This hints attraction and affection. But what you don’t want to do is ruin your reputation by becoming that “home-wrecker” more aimed at those who have kids, so if you haven’t got that far to where it becomes an affair that’s good, here’s my advice to prevent this potential affair, while showing them how you feel, also show them that you are not going to make yourself available for them to cheat and use you like their puppet, go out with your friends, have no contact whatsoever (may be hard if you don’t work with them), but if you do work with them only text/email them with work issues, not personal issues unless personal issues is going to affect work. I do this and it’s very powerful, every time I see him I can sense he’s so badly wanting me.
Date other people, this is good, not only does it show them that you are completely unavailable, you may just find that right person who will whisk you away forever. If the married person you have a strong connection and feelings for becomes divorced and approaches you about it, then by all means if you still have those feelings, give it a go! But don’t let it turn into an affair, you are just showing them that you are not available to be used as a puppet, if they truly want to be with you then they’ll get a divorce!
Totally agree with u except for the point hugging and holding, just be formal with them and just do your work and tell them that u are taken even if you are not.
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I do not agree with this for these reasons. Yes, as much as we work it is natural to be drawn to another sexually... cubicle right next door.. walk by them to go everywhere... can hear her voice and just stop working... sound like I might relate? And you talk to each other "at the water cooler"... to discover comments like "don't you two get enough of one another working so close?" People know including VP of Operations etc...
So, am i so selfish to put his job and existing family economics well-being at Risk... Am I willing to be unemployed myself? Everyone knows... and can also smell the pheromones. There is no touching or hugging or putting a supervisor at risk except to get him reprimanded and possibly fired.
So this can be idealized however you feel necessary but it is at the least irresponsible... And if a negative fall back occurs, he's not going to want to be around you anyway as the Cause of his troubles and break-up of Family when his wife learns of why he was fired !!
"Don’t fight your feelings, show your married man/woman how you feel"
"if they truly want to be with you then they’ll get a divorce!"
What the fuck is wrong with you?
you're giving tips to make married guy unfaithful, yet you advise to not have affair, that is bullshit.. also married guys always love to give attention to other women even though they know that they are tied with their partner.! that's why I was always tried to not act so friendly towards them, because I afraid if their home wreaking because of me.!
this is the worst my take I ever read.
How about leave married people alone, grow the fuck up and don't play fucking games
Lol. You look like SweetTay's sister. And you're just as messed up as she is!
If someone is taken… leave them the fuck alone!!!
Don’t be a home wrecker and a piece of human shit.
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