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I'm wondering if these are just words or lines, but I've had many guys tell me I'm a heartbreaker or look like one, and that it would be stupid, "shooting themselves in the foot" stupid to start anything with me. The arrogant, or players are what I have after my tail frequently, but then the actual nice and quieter guys I'm interested in, probably less "lady killers" in terms of looks, never take me seriously. I'm not an annoying dumb attractive woman either. I'm intelligent and fun to be around. I don't see why I keep failing with the guys I go after. I don't mind taking initiative either, actually I usually do when I find a guy I actually like. My type is always the quieter reserved, spends most time alone, type of guy. And they show me interest but never take it further, or give me really bad mixed signals or go extremely slow to the point where I take it as disinterest. Is there such thing as being too attractive for some guys? Like they think you're just on some power trip and will like them for a couple of weeks then trash them? Because I had one guy tell me we shouldn't continue talking because I would just fall out of feeling after a couple of weeks anyways. (He did come back a month later and has been after me ever since, but I didn't give him a chance because I thought what he said and thought was very shallow).

Gender dysmorphia is an accepted mental illness in the western world.
a lot of people who get a sex change end up killing themselves years later.
People who use hormones are more likely to get cancer.
How could someone strive to be the opposite sex? It is disturbing.
I know a lot of new age liberal feminists are going to be so offended but really forget the emotions and use logic...
I know about homosexuality but homosexuals find the same sex attractive. Just like people find a certain color attractive. But someone wants to actually be the opposite gender stereotypes and butcher their genitals (not all)? Im not transphobic nor am I against what people want to do but face it... Is this even ok? Yeah it's their life but is it even healthy? Yeah it's a sluts life but is a slut healthy? Yeah it's a heroin addicts life but is heroin safe for your body?

So, we always hear women adamant to claim that they don't look good for anyone but themselves and how egocentric it is to believe it's for others blah blah blah.
Personally, I don't believe that much. Maybe their main goal isn't to impress others, but it's definitely in the top 3 reasons, whether it be directly or indirectly. The reason you feel good is because of the compliments and attention.

*WARNING. THIS IS WHERE OFTEN I'M LABELED A MISOGYNIST. I AM NOT BUT THIS SHIT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE TO ME. PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK*

Who tf would seriously pour hot wax on their skin, rip the hair from roots, or even the tedious process of shaving. Takes forever to perfect winged eyeliner, and do that contour and other crap, for themselves only? Lol
That's not even to mention the perfectly coordinated outfits.

I'm sorry, but I just can't imagine anyone willing to take so much time just because they "feel like it".
If you were stranded on an island by yourself, assuming with your makeup would you do all that? Really?
I'd look like Chuck from Cast Away with Wilson lol Not like Beyonce "I woke up lyk dis".

So who do men dress or look good for? To attract a mate as almost every creature in the animal kingdom, or themselves like women claim? Lol do peacocks have such vibrant beautiful feathers for themselves?
And be honest please, time to fess up too ladies, or give me the real reason why y'all dress up.

I won't lie, if I'm trying impress someone, I'll put a little effort. My natural state is lazy af. So if I dress up, it's because my job requires it (I legit had a boss tell me to stop looking sloppy) or because I find someone attractive and I want him to notice me. Or it's my birthday and I wanna be a hot bitch for the day.