Search Results: guys being mean

What does it mean when a guy says he doesn't like how things started off in the talking stage?

Guy kind of rejected me after we went out and he mentioned other stuff but he threw in that he didn't like how things started off during the talking stage... Was that just an excuse? Because if that's the case why...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it just me or do hugs from the opposite gender feel different than the same gender?

I have a thing for being hugged, and hugs from boys are fine, but I like hugs from girls a little better. I was taught in kindergarten that hugs are only for relatives, and the rule is don’t hug or accept hugs from non...

Louis-Deger

Xper 5 Age: 27

Love gone wrong because of me?

Please no shame, I'm really distraught over this situation as is. I'm in love with this guy, I can't see myself being with anyone else. While I was friends with/somewhat "dating" him from 2020-2022, but not official, his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I get a socially awkward friend to get out of her shell and start dating again?

My friend has a lot of good qualities about her. She’s kind hearted, she’s a good christian (as in she accepts everyone for who they are but at the same time isn’t judgy or strict), she’s smart and very pretty (she turns...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Guys, Why are people asking what's OK?

Our president has severe dementia. Criminals are repeatedly being released on the streets. America is 35 trillion in debt. Trump is on trial, but not any Bidens. We are hemorrhaging money to Ukraine. The national guard is...

ApplePie409

Xper 6 Age: 33

Is it wrong to be emotionally intimate with a guy friend if he is committed?

Since January, we went back and became emotionally dependent on each other. I might have been guilty of always depending on him because I had been sick and he was the only one who frequently ask how i was so it ends up...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Health & Fitness

Why can’t some thick ladies understand not every thin girl likes being thin?

I mean for one as a thin girl would KILL to have a curvy figure! I mean I have one but I wish I was thicker. Not every girl that’s thin likes being thin. I dislike my thigh gap. My flat tummy (well I do like it but I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do you think guy has a soft spot for me?

The guy friend I often see seems to have a soft spot for me. Whenever we see each other, he checks if I have eaten and will sometimes foot the bill. He mentioned previously that he can't help but care for me when I got...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Is my fiance being disrespectful or is it just me?

I personally like when my fiance slaps my butt but... he over does it to extreme measures most the time so its become a problem. I tell him I don't want him to slap or touch my butt because it's like every 5 mins or less...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Who else hates people saying they’re something that they really aren’t?

There are these people next door to me.. it’s good I didn’t try to hit on their daughter because they are not nice people. My mom witnessed the husband yelling and screaming at this central American worker who was parked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I sent my boyfriend a birthday message appreciating him in my life. He said I am not supposed to express my feelings. Is that normal thinking?

So I sent my boyfriend a birthday message appreciating him in my life. I lost my father very recently. So I just acknowledged his support. He ignored my message. When I asked him the reason, he told me he doesn't like me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

If a guy calls you pretty (unprompted) does that mean he's interested in you?

So I recently went through a breakup with someone I worked with, and it was pretty well known throughout the store that we were together/a thing. This is necessary information for the question haha. There is a guy in my...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My soul mate was a gay guy? Why can't I find "the one" who is available to be mine?

After my marriage ended (to a weak goal-less but kind man) I found a gay best friend. He was very strong and manly despite being gay. He was the right level of dominant and goal orientated that I liked. We had such good...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

In love with him but his friend assaulted me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, You tell a guy he’s awesome, smart, decent looking, kind, etc but says I don’t feel a vibe?

She will also say it’s nothing personal, I don’t hate you, but if a guy has all the qualities she likes in a guy why would she reject him. I get that it might be height thing, religious thing, ethnicity thing, body type...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How to know if he's just friendly or a player? Will I have a chance to shoot my shot?

This classmate first attempted to talk to me in the fall 2023. Coincidentally, we got classes together again in spring 2024. He's always the person to talk to me first, I never went up to him. I'm an introvert and I'd...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I fell in love and a r*pist ruined it?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he asking all these weird questions?

All these questions are low key related to physical tolerance but very discrete. Since you’re light skinned if I pressed on your skin too hard will it bruise easily? How much are you willing to tolerate in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)