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The other day my boyfriend asked me if I would be mad if he hung out with people and did things while I was preoccupied. I said “no as long as you’re not hanging out with other girls without me because I know you wouldn’t like it if I hung out with other guys without you.” and he said he wouldn’t care as long as he trusted them (meaning his brother and a few his close friends) and so I said “okay then you can’t hangout with girls unless i trust them.” and he argued with me saying that there’s a difference between him hanging out with girls and me hanging out with guys (because it’s more likely that a guy will try to take advantage of me). I still feel like if you don’t want me doing it then you shouldn’t do it to me. It also makes me uncomfortable that one of his friends is a girl who has made it known to him that she wants to sleep with him (yes i’ve told him it makes me uncomfortable). He also rarely tells me about these friends that are girls and never invites me to meet them nor do they seem to inquire about me. am i wrong for this? am i being crazy? is there a reason he seems so insistent on hanging out with his friends that are girls without me?

My fiancés dog got hit by a truck 3 weeks after finding out we are expecting a baby. She had her back leg amputated and metal plates put in her pelvis, as it was broken in 3 spots. We were told to kennel rehab her for 8 weeks while she healed, which we did. She was a full assist for toileting and exercise through that time (having to hook her up to a cloth device and hold her up to go to the bathroom- which fell off on me because he works full time away from home whereas I work from home). It took a lot out of me, considering I am pregnant and exhausted. I now have a pinched sciatic nerve and have since 12 weeks in to the pregnancy and it's incredibly painful.

Fast forward the 8 weeks, she's out of kennel rehab and has developed an insane amount of behaviors. The vet swears that the truck didn't cause a brain injury but I don't buy that at all. To get the testing done it would cost us another $1k that we don't have (her surgeries cost almost $3k as is). She now lunges at the side of her cage snarling at everyone except my fiancé, refuses to get out of her cage unless you ultimately force her, has developed food and cage aggression, won't touch food at all unless it's nothing but an expensive brand of wet food that we had to get her during her healing process (will literally not eat to a point of being lethargic), has nipped at several peoples faces for doing something mundane- like hugging me or my husband goodbye when they leave the home, whines literally nonstop, barks nonstop, growls constantly, etc etc. The vets swear she's not in pain and this is all behavioral.

I'm due in 8 weeks and this dog and her behaviors are making me weary of even bringing the baby in to this house. I don't trust the dog and behavioral training isn't doing a wink of good. She's gone after the trainer more times than I can count. So I told my fiancé the dog has to leave before the baby comes. He says I'm heartless because she's been through a traumatic event.