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As men we have to compete against men that take steroids to look good. That’s all you see on social media and it’s what women want. Unrealistic attributes.

Most women will thing a fit person is a normal physique cause they look at an extreme minority of men that are athletes, or take steroids. Then we somehow have to match these guys.

I’ve noticed if you’re a very good looking dude, women don’t care if you’re broke, a bum, no education. They don’t care.

Whereas if you’re a normal looking guy who has his whole life together and a high achiever, ambitious he’s often not able to compete as high as the very good looking guy. I see it.

Look at dating apps, the top few men get basically all the matches with women begging for their attention despite ignoring them. Most men get no matches and poor options. I’ve done tests and seen in real life.

When do you ever hear women grateful/appreciative for their man? Many see you as replaceable and say they don’t need you.

With American women nothing is enough, with social media. They want more. How can ever be rich enough, tall enough and handsome enough for these women. Then they settle for the normal man when they realise they’re getting old, offensive in itself.

I don’t even think guys would have much success here. Whereas you could find a good respectful girl in an Asian country, who’s less like this. Still has her feminine side, gives her all to her man and loyal.

You can say it’s red pill 💊, I am blessed and really lucky, yet I just feel as men we are undervalued and undersold here. Yet we’re the bad ones. Male hating society, you can’t even talk facts without having your masculinity insulted.

This couple that I know.

Before they got together, they are always on their phones, even when they are hanging out with each other or with other people. Sometimes, the guy would randomly openly tease her and she would smile.

After getting together, they are still on their phones despite being next to each other (No, they are not playing the same apps or smt like that. They indulge in their own apps.)

I see some other couples do this as well where both partners are beside each other but using phones all the time, even when eating at restaurants.

It's like there is almost no communication between the two persons.

With me though, the girl can be communicative, so I don't think she is necessarily the quiet type, although it's normal for her to be quiet around new faces.

Has anyone been in such a relationship? Can this kind of relationship really work?