Search Results: should we stay friends

Backstory: We’re acquaintances (friends of a friend.), we met at a party in the beginning of the year. He’d been trying to ask me out I had a lot of things happening all at once. Career change and moving figuring out if I’d continue to live in the area or find something back in my hometown. I stayed in the area, he helped me move my mattress. Then we’d been texting pretty much everyday and he’d FaceTime me twice just talking nothing crazy. I had car trouble, that he fixed. I couldn’t pay him he knows I cook so he asked me if that could be his payment. I said yeah. We were hanging out eating, smoked some weed and we both had stuff to get back to.

Current: I found free roller skating at a park and asked if he wanted to go. He said yes and it became a date. We ended up hooking up. We had some technical difficulties and planned for next weekend.

That next weekend, He asked if I still wanted to go to the movies with him, I said yes. Dressed a little fancy and we came back to my place to eat. We watched another movie he really wanted to see b/c he hadn’t seen it. Movie finished at 3am, I asked if he was going home he said he was really tired. I said he can sleep here if he wants he said yeah. Surprise he wasn’t that tired. We tried with the sex again. He thought he was hurting me I assured him he wasn’t. I don’t think he believed me and we just laid there talking for like a half hour and fell asleep. He also left his earring. I didn’t say anything about it though. After we were texting for four days. The responses weren’t dry or sparse everything normal. Then he suddenly stopped.

Should I text him just a simple “Hey, you good?” Or just keep being radio silent? I can at least think of five reasons: He’s not interested. He’s an introvert a social battery thing. Focused on finding a new apartment that I distracted him from twice. He actually wants a girlfriend (not sure why). Or it’s all those reasons. Should I just not say anything and leave him alone?

I like a guy at work, coincidentally he worked in front of me for 3-4 days a month and half ago. I didn’t like him during that time but once I began like him, I found out he works in other separate area not where I work at.

so my plan to make him my friend working together failed.

we don’t cross paths so it’s difficult try talk to him. He seems shy , walking alone no friends reserved.

the last time he worked near me I felt him look at me and when I turned to look at him he quickly looked down at the floor. So our eyes didn’t meet.

I also don’t see girls walking with him or approaching him. I’m shy myself so I’m also not walking with a guy or anything.

it’s been a while since I’ve seen him and I can’t be around him so he notice me more and look at each other. Only way this can happen is if I talk to him myself.
or shud I not talk to him never and stay single and sad& continuework and day dream of this guy I like a lot in my head?

there’s many men daily at job like 100 but I only like him. Or is it true only men need make first move or else they don’t like you enough?

On another post someone said that in divorce things should be split 50/50 of any and all assets gained throughout the marriage regardless on if one partner contributed the bulk of those assets or not.

As example one spouse stayed at home & the other worked, stay at home would be entitled to 50% of assests (property, furniture, etc.) bought in the marriage even if didn't pay a dime.

And that got me thinking.

I own a property outright (bought easily as I came from Europe & CAD is far less), I have a good job, I am currently running one e commerce business & thinking of another next year. And looking into some property investment deals with a long time friend of mine.

Yeah I'm really a woman brought up in a upper middle class, highly business focused family. So business, investment, etc. is generational, going back to great-grandpa.

Anyway

I'd be mighty pissed off if someone thought that simply by marriage they'd be entitled to anything that MY hard work contributed to the household merely because we're married.