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I created a poll to see what most people think.

Here is my opinion. Getting rid of that the downvote/dislike feature has really watered down the experience when reading comments about other peoples opinions.

You just don’t know which comments are more unpopular when it comes to controversial questions and takes. Seeing unpopular comments gives you a better idea of what is popular.

I have posted unpopular opinions in past that were disliked by multiple people. Whoop te do. It happens. I didn’t lose sleep over it and anybody who feels “heartbroken” over being downvoted really doesn’t belong on GAG. It isn’t “bullying” to dislike a comment. So what if people didn’t like my opinion but at least I knew it wasn’t popular.

Also people get in heated debates all the time on here. What do you expect when you bring up often controversial issues about relationships, dating, sex, politics, etc?

I still don’t know why GAG decided to do this. It’s such weak tea and really takes away from the user experience.

There have been a few times in my life where I dated women who had “school girl” crushes on me. However they later quickly bailed when they got to know the real me.

I am not a psycho or anything. I am definitely a deep thinker and can be sensitive about things. I got some depression but I’ve always been independent both financially and emotionally. I get support from friends but I know it’s ultimately up to me to fix my own issues.

Anyway I’ve improved on how showed my lesser sides to women as I have gotten older. Gotten better at being careful about what emotions I will show women vs. which ones I’ll keep a lid on. Especially when it comes to insecurities

But I can remember dating a few women in the past who were initially head over heels for me because of the fantasy they had in their head about who they thought I was. Sure it felt good initially. They often pursued me and made dating easy. No problem getting laid in that scenario (usually their idea). They also would act seemingly supportive and tolerant of my personality. But this always ended bad. Very bad. One girl ghosted me after dating for 9 f*cking months. And all while I was dating I was aware they might just be daydreaming only to do a 180 later when their “emotions” changed.

But there have been a few women I pursued just to discover issues with them later that was less than pleasant. It was a turn off but I never did a quick 180 immediately just because they didn’t match up to the original image I had of them in my head.