If you’re going to comment please be nice.
I have been casually dating this guy and it’s been great, we’ve been on and off for almost a year now. At the start it was very consistent, we had regular sex, I met his friends, his met mine, we had some great times together but then he started pulling back and being inconsistent so I called it off and moved on with my life. We have still been in contact on and off but nothing sexual (last time we had sex was 2 months ago). Last week, we both agreed ( my idea) it wasn’t working out and decided to cut everything off completely. I do have strong feelings for him but I felt like this was the right thing to do.
Last night I saw him in the club when I was out with my friends, he was staring at me the whole night I was dancing and hanging out with my friends (I have to say I was looking hot and was getting a lot of attention from men in there). I went to say hi and gave him a side hug and he rubbed my back when he was hugging me (same thing when I went over to say goodbye as I was leaving), meaning?
As I was leaving I could feel him trying to make eye contact and asked my friends behind me why were leaving so early.
I know I made a decision and I need to stick to it. I really feel like I want to reach out but I feel like he should.
