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Over the years I’ve seen plenty of guys (myself included) gripe about women (especially western women). To a certain extent lots of our grievances are justified considering what feminism has done to western culture.

I have and always agreed with the premise of giving opportunities to women in traditionally male dominated spheres. But as feminism evolved (or should I say devolved) it now more often enables women to be their worst vs. be their best. Usually to the expense of men too but ultimately to the unhappiness and misery of women themselves

With all the said I fully believe there is a deeply engrained evolutionary reason why women tend to be much more selfish in dating.

There was a long time in history women had to use their sexuality to their advantage for both self-preservation and protection of their children. They had fewer opportunities then men and also aren’t as physically strong hence they had to make to with what they had to survive (e. g. manipulation vía sexual attraction). This also a reason why they cared much more about a man’s wealth and prominence. It would ensure her well being and increased survival.

Nowadays in western culture most if not all that bs female manipulation is no longer necessary. Women are not only given ample opportunity to make money but encouraged and supportive via college admissions and scholarship processes. Corporations often want to hire women over men to look “diverse”. The “wage gap” is a proven myth.

Despite the equal opportunities there a DNA instincts that still influence behavior to be more picky with men and to use their sexuality for their own one way benefits.

But we got to deal with this the same way you deal with a sociopath (not saying all women are sociopaths). A sociopath at default is incapable of feeling remorse, guilt, etc. Yelling at them won’t change anything. Instead you have to interact with them carefully. Same with how to deal with women. Love them but be very careful to trust them.

The girl I met has a beautiful heart, cute smile and a sweet voice. When I saw her for the first time, I didn't get any feelings. She's just an other random girl for me. But once I got a chance to engage in a conversation with her when she was sitting all by her own, I started to like her. But she friend-zoned me. Then I started getting this really different feeling which I haven't experienced before. Like while thinking of her I get a hot sensation from deep down inside my chest (guys please don't make fun of me 😂. I literally have no words to describe that feeling). While receiving a text message from her, my heart beats in sync with the notification tone 😂. Once I asked status and she replied that she is currently single. Now coming to the point, I had this dream today dawn (12/12/2022) may be 6 to 6:30 am. Here goes my dream

I'm entering in a movie theater with my parents and my little brother. The lights are on, yet the movie is not started. There I saw my girl sitting alone, the row she's sitting had no people. On searching our seats, I saw her and she saw me. I waved my hand to say Hi 👋. She called me near her. After settling my family in their seats, I rushed to her. She pulled my hand and made sit next to her and hugged my hand and layed on my shoulder. Till that point she seems to be fine. Suddenly I heard her crying, looked her face. Her eyes were filled with tears, and at her lower voice she goes like : I can't wait anymore for you to propose, I love you form the deep down from my heart, but I won't beg you for love 😭😭😭...

I'm trying to console her by saying that stop crying baby, I too love you and so on... But she cried out a lot and hugged me tightly... Then I woke up. My confusions are

1. I know that she's currently single. Should I propose her? Express my feelings of love for her?

2. And if I did so, will that affect our friendship?

3. Is this all one of my wet dreams or something like that 😂😂?

I've been messed around quite a lot by women in the dating marketplace. They seem to test me out and just ditch me for some other dude that they always had waiting. I feel like the other guy in these situation is also being messed around.

In these scenarios I tend to stay exclusive to one woman to see if they would work in a relationship. I end up getting bitten for trying to give the woman the courtesy of prioritising them.

Do women do this deliberately? Do you pretend you're exclusive with men and then ditch them with no regard for their feelings?