Hey
So this guy I'm seeing for awhile he doesn't put his arm around me like other guys do with their girlfriends or other guys just do it for pictures with their female friends he doesn't smile like before he hides his feelings from this girl who was around for him when no one else was and she loves and cares for him he knows that
He did or does still have feelings for her but it's complicated because she is the type of girl who is different she sits and listens without wanting anything in return he even cried with her about their pets like it was more emotional with her he wouldn't hook up her and he didn't want to let her go he even made a mix tape about not wanting to let her go!
He knew she liked him but he doesn't want to tell her what he feels for her so he ignores her... and then he started seeing me we became close very quick always going out or hooking up but I'm worried if he's using me as a distraction to get his mind off of her
I don't understand he and I are together but I'm confused he could have chosen to be with her and tell her how he feels but he hides it... he blocked her off everything so maybe that's a good sign but he doesn't smile like before... and I also noticed his bestfriend didn't block her why would he still have her unblocked? He and his bestfriend live together... I head him speaking to her recently and he said goodbye and goodluck and that's when he blocked her but I'm not sure how to handle this whole situation because they are always blocking and unblocking each other... what I do know though is those two have a very emotional bond
thanks
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It sounds like you need to just try and talk to this guy about your concerns. Let him know... basically everything you wrote here. See what he has to say about how he feels about her, and how he feels about you, and whether he's ready to move forward to try and build a relationship with you, or if he's still working out feelings with his ex.
This sounds like a situation that is going to be impossible for your to navigate, unless you try and cut through some of these 'unknowns' by straigh-up telling him how you feel, and asking him to be honest about how he feels. Most people WILL be honest in return if you approach them straightforwardly and tell them honestly how YOU feel. Otherwise... there's way to much guessing and assuming (which can easily be wrong).
All I know is, you need to have a talk with this guy you're seeing. Get your questions answered properly and accurately.
Aren't you the nosey one? It seems the rest of this story is one big assumption.
Why is THIS anonymous?