Search Results: being with someone that you don't love

Hear me out. I absolutely love dogs, i love playing with them, cuddles, stroking, taking them for walks. Etc but i absolutely detest the barking. Its not only giving me headaches, its keeping me awake at night and waking me up when im not ready (i need a good 10 hours sleep to function during the day) theyre in the kennels if u haven't guessed already. I read its heavily against leaving them in kennels for long periods of time too

Its 1am and i can hear them barking, i had 5 hrs sleep last night so i feel ready to go to sleep now but also feel my headaches getting worse. I've had a sever minegrane (sp) so they're probably not helping it. But theyve been there for years but its lately just getting worse. I can even hear them When were in the front room roraring so i dont think moving rooms would even be the answer (i do go into my mums as i dont hear them in there but she snores so that also wakes me up), theyve been barking till 2am some nIghts lately

I read on some forum someone tried to get something done but they wouldn't due to them Not barking during the night but ours are

Its A bit awkward to talk to the neighbours due to it being behind our back garden. Its not like its the same estate. I was thinking of leaving a note ontop of the fence or something like that😂

Im also concerned about their well being that accessive barking means theyre not being looked after properly. My brother and sister s dogs dont bark that much

Even with no actual experience I still believe I fall under this category, I wonder if I need to manifest the law of attraction or something even though I do think that’s bs.

You know when you have a gut feeling? I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years, it’s come to the point where I’m not as interested & I swipe on matches/reply to msgs every few days. Dating apps are the only way I’ve tried dating as I dont have a social life but dating apps have been successful for quite a few people I know. I’ve never had a real relationship, I saw someone for a few months maybe 5 years ago & something told me after I saw him that’d I’d be single for a long time. With him it felt like settling & I refuse to ever be with someone that made me feel like that again.

I had to use dating apps bc I’m not very friendly & I don’t get approached in person. I’m told I’m cute/attractive & I will say I have a very low sex drive (haven’t masturbated or had sex in 5 years). I don’t think this is a huge deal considering this isn’t something that will be an issue that early on, a guy can’t just look at my profile/see me in person & know that right off the bat.

I get matches (never been the issue) but it’s always: ghosting, fizzling out, lack of interest (can go both ways), feelings not reciprocated, just not a good match & some guys are just crazy. I just always have a gnawing feeling like guys aren’t attracted to me, I’d get told once in a while that some guy looked at me/found me cute but they never do anything about it. And I don’t either hence why I’m posting this

TLDR: based off the description, is this something that’s unlucky in love?