Search Results: confidence

2 mo

What would you like to ask someone who has overcome social anxiety?

Between the ages of 15 and 28, I experienced severe loneliness and social phobia. I was very shy. I’ll briefly summarize my life. At 28, after a fight with my family, I was briefly homeless and wandered the streets. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

2 mo

Girls, what flirty pickup lines or tactics actually worked on you and why?

Do you respond to humour, confidence, nervousness? What things do you notice?

whosnumber_1

Xper 5 Age: 49

Guy's Behavior

2 mo

I really like this girl but my low confidence and body image hold me back?

I have tried talking to her but it was mostly small talk nothing serious. I think my issue is im a bit overweight and have no confidence in myself to try and ask her out. I just feel too ashamed of my body and what her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

2 mo

Why do men get mad and demean a woman who tells him she wants to wait for sex? Especially if she told him day 1?

He’s all nice but the minute sex is off the table he says hurtful things to you and tries to lower your confidence why not just find women who are looking for the same thing

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

2 mo

What's the point of self improvement?

When I was just 15 years old, I thought everything will be great if I improve myself in so many fields, like magic tricks will start happening in life. And I am now in my 30s and so far I've accomplished lots of things:...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

2 mo

Thinking about teardrop breast implants for confidence—do they look natural?

I have small boobs, very small boobs and I've been thinking about breast implants for a long time, what got me was a man I was seeing made a comment when I mentioned he was leaning on my breasts he replied what breasts do...

Brokenheartedx

Guru Age: 40

Relationships

2 mo

Are You Gun Shy From Telling Someone In Confidence Things About Yourself Because They Turn It Around And Use It Against You?

I guess we never know when this is going to happen to us until it actually happens. I've always been like an open book but not about everything, keeping some things to myself. But when someone makes you feel...

sage2021

Master Age: 71

Entertainment & Arts

2 mo

Would You Take Part In A Karaoke Evening With A Room Full Of Strangers?

Before covid Karaoke was very popular at places I used to go, but since then it seems to have gone out of favor. Last week I took a few days vacation, and at the hotel I was staying at they had a music act in the evening,...

Sunrising

Yoda Age: 32

Before covid Karaoke was very popular at places I used to go, but since then it seems to have gone out of favor. Last week I took a few days vacation, and at the hotel I was staying at

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Education & Career

2 mo

Has low self-confidence ever kept you from love, success or sharing your talents?

Around 10 years ago, I found a guy on Facebook I really liked, I thought he was a 10 out of 10, but I decided he would not be interested in somebody basic and plain like me and did not bother to message him or add him as...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Dating

2 mo

How do I tell him I’m pulling away because I feel insecure and avoidant?

I dont like labels of course but I met someone and he seems to like me. He also doesn't hide anything on his phone or messaging apps and he's truly an honest person. I am more quiet and soft spoken, I am trying to be more...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

2 mo

How do I stop wanting romantic validation and accept being single?

So, as the title says, I am a girl who clearly struggles to date. I am 20 and I have never been asked out, almost never experienced catcalling, my dms are also basically dry and non existent. Its obvious that I am no guys...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

3 mo

Driving through and into the hood also helped make me more confident lol. How are you when you drive through the hood in your city?

So uhh this might sound odd to you guys but i do think driving through the hood often for my job helped my confidence a bit. Some of you here may know i deliver food for my main job around my city and often times i go...

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

So uhh this might sound odd to you guys but i do think driving through the hood often for my job helped my confidence a bit. Some of you here may know i deliver food for my main job

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Dating

3 mo

What kind of confidence are you most attracted to in someone?

The term is subject in my opinion, i. e. quiet confidence? Loud confidence? Etc or any other type you have

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

3 mo

Can low confidence and monotone conversation increase breakup risk?

I was watching a social media star online who got dumped after confirming her romance and she seemed extremely subdued and monotone in dialogue. It might be due to harsh disciplinarians when she was growing up, but I just...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Other

3 mo

Do you feel confident in who you are, or still figuring yourself out?

Confidence is interesting because it doesn’t always mean being loud or bold…Sometimes it just means being comfortable with who you are. Do you feel confident in who you are as a person, or are you still figuring yourself...

7Phoenix7

Guru Age: 35

Confidence is interesting because it doesn’t always mean being loud or bold…Sometimes it just means being comfortable with who you are. Do you feel confident in who you are as a

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How Do I Look?

3 mo

How much do clothes and confidence actually change perceived attractiveness?

I was watching a bunch of Jewish guys in suits and ties on YouTube, and I thought they were all a 10 out of 10 for good looks. Then I saw them in casual everyday clothing, and I thought they were a 5 or 6 out of 10. And a...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41