Is there anything that is lowers your self-confidence?

[thenewguy9191]

[Anonymous]

Nope. But I'm old enough and irrelevant enough now that I'm on nobody's radar. I could disappear tomorrow and it'd be a week at least before anyone would notice. So if you become irrelevant and invisible enough confidence also becomes irrelevant. At that point you can pretty much do what you like. Because no one's paying attention anyhow.😆

[thenewguy9191]

Thank you for your insightful explanation.

[queenofcardio]

Being around intelligent people and not understanding a thing that they are discussing. Especially when someone invites me into the conversation and I'm fighting for my life to not say something that they would consider to be stupid.

[thenewguy9191]

You don’t have to have an opinion about every topic. I don’t think the situation you described is something that happens very often. Also, you shouldn’t be afraid to speak up. Saying “I don’t know” about something you don’t know doesn’t make you look stupid. Not knowing isn’t stupidity — refusing to learn is.

[queenofcardio]

It rarely happens. That's how I feel during those moments. It does go away.

True.

[thenewguy9191]

:) dont worry be happy !

[queenofcardio]

Lol I'm generally a happy person ☺️

[thenewguy9191]

Perfect !

[mrshooiser]

Not feeling beautiful enough or intelligent enough.

[thenewguy9191]

Beauty is a subjective concept. I can understand that you may feel you’re not beautiful enough, but according to many people, you are actually very beautiful :) I think you should look at the positive side and always stay happy.

[mrshooiser]

Who the heck are you talking to? No one on here has ever said that I was very beautiful.

[thenewguy9191]

Do you need to hear that? Is that necessary for you?

[mrshooiser]

Not really. If no one ever said that

[thenewguy9191]

You are beatiful enough ! just be happy :)

[Abbycado]

Not really anything that is noticeable.

[Anonymous]

I already have low self-confidence.

[thenewguy9191]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess it's because I'm too shy.

[thenewguy9191]

Seriously? I saw that your age 36-45 is it true?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, it's true... and still a virgin, go figure.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Were I with a fat broad !!!