What's the point of self improvement?

[Anonymous]

When I was just 15 years old, I thought everything will be great if I improve myself in so many fields, like magic tricks will start happening in life. And I am now in my 30s and so far I've accomplished lots of things:

- got rid of anxiety and shyness and traumas and boosted confidence
- learned English
- learned coding, 7 programming languages and sold some software worldwide online
- learned marketing, SEO etc.
- hit the gym, ate healthy and built some muscle
- read lots of books and docs

But look at me now in my 30s: very depressed, lonely, no girlfriend, no life, lots of problems.

These fake self improvement lies solve almost nothing in your life.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Things don’t show up if you’re not actively working for them. If you were improving yourself for the sake of pussy but never actively sought it out, that’s on you.

[Asker]

What do you suggest exactly

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Setting up a date or two on your own like a big boy lol

[Asker]

Lol you so funny and cute

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Also a lesbian, so don’t bother

[Asker]

I didn't try to get you but anyway, are you fully lesbian or bisexual lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Trans and lesbian. I have a penis

[Asker]

I don't believe you. So you have a penis since you were born

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yep that’s how being a trans lesbian works

[Nikki1989]

Life is all about moving forward. Once you stop, you have failed.

[Asker]

You are right

[strateguy632]

"lonely, no girlfriend, no life, " is one problem. also it does not erase your achievements.

[Asker]

How to fix this issue?

[Mike_Hum]

lol. what? You're stronger, smarter and better off than you were at 15.

[NathanDavis]

you forgot to value yourself...

you didn't improve that

[Asker]

Please teach me how to do it. That's true that I feel very worthless sometimes. Because no woman valued me

[NathanDavis]

therapy

[ibodi]

You can read existentialism to see what is going on. that is not only you in society.