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Search Results: confused at what we are
She’s healing from a past relationship—should I pursue or move on?
Apparently, I'm talking to this girl who recently gotten out of a courtship that went wrong. It appears she's healing from it and needs some time to get her emotions together. I was just curious. I was thinking of talking...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get distant and mean when everything was going good?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get mean and distant?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he turn mean and suddenly leave right after we got so close?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I handle a gaming friend whose jokes suddenly feel mean and distant?
I have a gaming friend who has joked with me a lot. He got mad at me in a game we were playing with other friends. Ever since then, he has seemed unfriendly. He has still made jokes about me with our friends, but he tends...
yellowsombrero
Xper 1 Age: 48 Was my ex playfully teasing me, or trying to put me down?
Last night I was texting my ex. I asked him what his type was, and he said “bad bitches.” I jokingly replied saying “I am bad” and sent him a selfie of me. His response was literally: “ I threw up” I’m confused because I...
khyalove101
Xper 1 Age: 23 Why is my best friend of 13 years suddenly pulling away after flirting?
We’ve been friends 13 years, both had relationships etc and we finally got back into each others lives again in October, he asked me to join his church, meet his friends and family.. the first few months we texted daily,...
mel725
Xper 1 Age: 35 Why would my ex unblock me on Instagram after 2.5 years of no contact?
I’m confused about an ex situation and trying to understand the psychology behind it from a guy’s perspective. My ex and I have had roughly 2.5 years of no contact. He currently has a girlfriend that he lives with, and we...
Anonymous
(30-35) She rejected me but giggled telling others I like her—good or bad sign?
Texted a former coworker after I left job that I missed her cause she CLEARLY was into me giving me flirts and touches but at the same time acted like she wasn't.. anyway she ended up rejecting me and told her friends and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Boyfriend posts us but won’t add me on Facebook—what’s going on?
He post my pictures and us together, but he doesn't want to add me on Facebook. Im confused. I asked him and he doesn't say much. Why doesn't he want to add me?
Anonymous
(30-35) My fiancé posts our photos but won’t add me on Facebook—why?
He post all my pictures and pictures of us together, but he doesn't want me on his friends list or one of his friends. Im confused. I asked him and he doesn't say much. Am I overreacting? Why doesn't he want to add me?
Anonymous
(30-35) Emotionally close but not official after months of talking. What are we?
I (25F) have been talking long distance with a guy (29M) for a while now and I’m trying to understand the dynamic because it feels emotionally serious, but also unclear at the same time We talk every single day. maybe...
casssseydayo
Xper 1 Age: 20 What are we can anyone give me advices?
I (25F) need honest opinions about a guy (29M) I’ve been talking to long distance for a while now because I genuinely can’t tell if I’m overthinking or if something changed 😭 We talk every single day, but we’re still not...
casssseydayo
Xper 1 Age: 20 What does it mean if someone makes me a close friend on Telegram and posts a love song story just for me?
I know it sounds childish, but a woman I know just kept liking every story I’ve been posting on Telegram. I saw one of her stories, and the app lets me see that I’ve been one, if not the only one, of the selected contacts...
Anonymous
(30-35) Called 911 on a reckless driver, but did police actually pursue them?
Some dude came to a skidding halt barely making a left turn at the intersection and continuing to speed southbound down the feeder. Called 911 and they didn't even ask what the car looked like I just told them where they...
red324
Guru Age: 37 Is most love actually conditional, and does true unconditional love exist?
I only know conditional love in my way of giving it to someone with some expecting at the bare minimum. I have never experienced unconditional love in my life even from my parents, it was marks, obedience, money, and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever woken from a nap totally confused about the day and time?
I just experienced it and I was clueless for Like 5 minutes lol
Why do I feel no wants or desires even though my life is going well?
I am a 25-year-old woman, and I’ve struggled with my emotions for most of my life. One thing I always promised myself was that I would become independent from my family. Nothing was ever handed to me because my family has...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think modern relationships are becoming more emotionally disconnected, even when physical intimacy is more common than ever?
We live in a time where people can talk every day, sleep together, share pictures, share bodies, call it “connection,” and still remain complete strangers when it comes to emotional depth. People normalize...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think peace is one of the purest forms of love someone can give you?
Not obsession, intensity, or temporary excitement, but the kind of presence that makes you feel emotionally safe, mentally calm, and fully yourself without fear of being misunderstood. # The more I experience...
Anonymous
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