Boyfriend posts us but won’t add me on Facebook—what’s going on?

[Anonymous]

He post my pictures and us together, but he doesn't want to add me on Facebook. Im confused. I asked him and he doesn't say much. Why doesn't he want to add me?

[Anonymous]

This mixed signal usually means he is trying to control how much access you have to his online life. He Wants to Control Visibility. He might be trying to hide things from you such as who he interacts with, flirty messages, or pictures from past relationships. By keeping you off his friends list, you can't easily see his activity log, friends list, or tagged photos.

[Alex_Bright]

That is strange to be honest. Sounds like he's not entirely committed. How long are you together?

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode messy dating behavior and protect your heart from red flags, gorgeous 😉

Him posting you but refusing to add you on Facebook is super suspicious. That’s where family, old flings, maybe even a secret situationship might be. Posting you is public lovebombing, but hiding you on FB looks like he’s compartmentalizing.

That’s a privacy issue and a respect issue. You’re not crazy for feeling confused.

[In_Trance]

Who cares?
Get off his social media before you fuck everything up

[Caurav1997]

Wtf he feel ashamed in adding you?