Why is he not adding me on his fb?

[IamAnn]

I 42 and iam in relation with this guy who is 47. We know each other from the past 2 years n in relationship since a year and a half. His on fb from the start but has been saying that he doesn't use it so I never bothered. His only there as his subscribed to few news groups and has only few close family members around 10 or 12 whom he doesn't get to see as his in overseas. Recently I asked him to add me on but he didn't. i sent him a fren request which he didn't accept but instead gave me a call n explained the above. He claims that he doesn't believe in the virtual world n his just a message or a call away... always available for me on viber or watsapp as he has been for the past 2 years. His relation with me is not hidden from his family as I have been to his place many times with n without him. His mum is my fb fren and we always call n talk to each other. Now the question is... is he being honest or deceiving me. we are in a distant relationship and I don't knw how to take this. Why would he not connect with me on fb if he does have a account and his 13 or 14 connections are there... why not me? We have had this argument a few times now and he is adamant not to add me. He says m part of his life not a fb connection so I have the right to ask him whatever I want to but he won't add me on fb? I am just so confused.

[kinggeorge007]

Either he's telling the truth or he has something to hide, there's no in between. But I tend to believe him given then context

[SeekingVirginWife]

I do not have a facebook account, even if I did I would not add a wife.

Facebook is a mind control program, delete it.

[Whatever2929292]

I don't know. I think you should ask him the question. I am sorry about that. Maybe he gets a lot of notifications.

[IamAnn]

I did... his answer is same all the time that he is not using it otherwise except for the subscriptions and I don't need to be there... I can talk to him directly.

[Whatever2929292]

I am really sorry. I don't know the answer to that. If he is good to you then stick around but not a good sign

[Whatever2929292]

Well if that is his reason but you both get along good long as it seems truthful then no problem

[IamAnn]

That's the problem that there are no other issues between us... we get along well n hardly argue over anything. I feel so good with him... his protective, cares a lot and shares everything but I don't get why his acting so regarding fb.

[Whatever2929292]

Then I think maybe he's a good person for you. That might have been the honest reason why. You should talk to him and I am glad that he is all of that for you.

Make sure that you do your best to be the same things you listed he is as well. Which I am sure you are!

But yea just talk to him about it that it is really bothering you

[IamAnn]

Thank u

[Whatever2929292]

You're welcome

[Guy13]

It sounds like he is not fully committed🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[IamAnn]

Was my first reaction as well.

[Guy13]

Well then, WE must be right…. Two guesses that are same is a good start…Number same out of 10 responses would be a good number to know…

[IamAnn]

Hmm... just trying not to be too negative as I don't have any other issues with him. Its hard to judge.

[Guy13]

Exactly, so is 10 reply then there’s a good Sample…more reliable predictor than just you and I…

[IamAnn]

Thanks

[In_Trance]

He doesn't want to see the crap you post

[IamAnn]

He did say that too

[JohnK123]

Maybe he doesn’t want to talk online

[IamAnn]

He talks to me online anyways... just not on messenger

[JohnK123]

weird

[Jouth]

not gonna lie, I kind of have to poop

[Yuuibtony]

He not adding u because you too short