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For this, what I mean is would you rather go on a date to a fancy dinner place or a more casual activity?

One I'd most want to do is cooking dinner together at a place. Fancy restaurants are awkward with the sitting across and whispering, no laughing or telling strange stories, it's the opposite of my idea of a good time.

Getting to know someone shouldn't feel like a job interview. For me to get anywhere with someone, the dresses need to come off, pun intended. I'd want to cook a meal with her, get to know eachother as we do, be all playful and silly, get past the edge and all that in a fun way, not staring across from a table and whispering at eachother.

I find it kinda hilarious, a room full of people in suits and dresses, whispering at eachother as if we can't all hear eachother, anyways... And let's not even discuss wine prices in restaurants. Rule of thumb, if the bottle is sold in the restaurant, you're almost certainly paying 5× retail price for the wine.

Would you rather have a more formal date with strict social boundaries or one that's loose and more personal?

I've had mixed reactions to breakups. One in which I recognized was basically over anyways, I felt nothing. I felt angry and sad when infidelity occurred, but my last one, I feel relieved.

It was hardly a relationship, just 18 days of lots of talking and all. But her need for attention became insatiable, I spent hours a day talking and it was never enough. She blew my phone the hell up when I went to make soup and tend to my dogs for 10 minutes.

I go to the bathroom, I come back to several missed calls and accusations that I cheated. No matter how much time i spent talking to her, the next day, she always wanted even more time commitment and on video calls, she got mad when I tried to multi task.

Her constant needs for reassurance, short fuse and a relationship in which she'd already brought up marriage several times, her need for attention and validation being exhausting, and it felt like being suffocated.

I told her over and over I needed space, she'd send 10 messages within a minute of me saying it. All this to say I am happy she is out of my life, she was very toxic and controlling, and I won't be with someone who doesn't even respect me enough to stop pestering me every 2 seconds.

She got me out of my comfort zone with cooking, that's the best thing I got from it. I ended it with her, brushing off her angry closing remarks. I'll find someone else, it's okay.

I hope the next woman I form a connection with will be more mature and reasonable. How do you usually feel after breakups and why?