How can I learn to accept being cheated on in every relationship?

[Anonymous]

I am 29M and still a virgin. I work out quite a bit but that doesn’t matter when you’re subhuman and have been beaten down repeatedly by life.

Im kind of short too (5 ft 9). And I don’t have the heart to go for an ugly woman then feign attraction to her (because let’s face it, that’s what I’ll end up doing if I go for someone I find ugly). So my last option is a cheating golddigger. I found a few of those.

And thats why I’m doing what I’m doing.

So, how to be okay with being cheated on forever? Even now the thought of a girlfriend kissing another man good night and saying he loves him makes me sick, and I have no clue how to learn putting up with that.

[Screenwriter]

Please see a professional therapist and discuss why you keep ending up in these inferior relationships. You need to pick women more carefully, not decide to accept being cheated on. That's mentally/emotionally unhealthy.

Talk out these issues and see how you can improve on picking better SOs.

[Anonymous]

Just go for an average woman

You’ve never had sex with any of the gold diggers you dated?

[MrChinaski]

How do you decide who to enter a relationship with? No, I'm not asking for a checklist. My point is that I've never been in a relationship where cheating was even a remote possibility. The world is full of honest, quality people. Try to find one of them.

[Anonymous]

By practicing self-control and discipline.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you unlearn toxic beliefs about love and build something real, not settle for pain in disguise.

You’re not “subhuman”, you’re just brutally insecure and using self‑hate as a shield. Accepting cheating isn’t maturity, it’s self-abandonment. That’s not love, that’s emotional s×icide.

Work on your self-worth, not on tolerating red flags. Therapy, lifting, style, social skills. You deserve a woman you genuinely desire who’s loyal, not a walking red flag you pay to disrespect you.

[OneViewpoint]

Dude, you have way more problems than I can solve. Good luck with your self pity and low self esteem. That may have something to do with women moving on from you.

[NathanDavis]

you don't

you end that/those relationships and move on

[Abbycado]

Full of shit

[In_Trance]

This is retarded