Can you handle being cheated on from a mental and emotional stand point?

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Alyssa_11 · Accepted Answer

No I can’t. It’s happened to me and although it’s almost been two years the thought of him and even her makes me shiver til this day.

I have no desire to see or talk to the scum that’s my ex, and I know I’m better than the girl he cheated on me with, not because I have morals unlike her but I’m also prettier than her. Yet it still makes me feel insecure because you can’t help but ask why did he cheat on me with her? What does she have that I don’t? The moment you stop questioning that, blaming yourself and realising that some people are just bad people you start to move on.

I’ve accepted that it’s got nothing to do with me and I’m a perfectly complete and fine human being. He’s just a greedy man that can’t keep to himself.

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

I am a very emotional person , No. When I cought my ex cheating on me anger didn't let me think. Out of anger I grab the floral he had given me threw it in the driveway crying and grab the mistress by her hair and we fight with each other. I was blind by anger.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I don't know...

as much as I could think or say that I would be able to handle it, I have never been in that situation before so I can't really tell...

and then, there would be the many situations and details around it, the history, the background, how things unfolded and long long etcétera

but I still think that yes, I would be able to handle it well enough or at least... as well as some other difficult things I've deal with, that do not compare to it but, they're still difficult things to deal with

I also think that the emotional side of things could be more difficult to deal with, than the mental aspects of the situation

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

As long as two good-hearted and equally yoked people KNOW they are stuck THEN error is easier to manage.
—It’s a fallen world with fallen people where Fallen is. Equally yoked In Grace, with Father, God’s behavior modifications is how it’s going to be…ride it out in Sovereignty but He’s NOT an unforgiving Father.
Thank God, I do not have to Judge as those Decretive, Preceptive, and Permissive judging standards Are.

t_time · Answer

I am an expert on being cheated on. Every single boyfriend I've ever had besides the one I have currently. Has cheated on me. Some with multiple women. It takes a toll on you mentally. I have heightened anxiety, trust issues, many sleepless nights, intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, I've been working on my issues. But it hasn't really gone away. I hate to say it but it kind of sticks with you. It was way less than it was before. But I don't think it will ever fully go away

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I'm a pretty mentally tough person, but when I got cheated on it kind of messed me up for a bit. I don't even think I realised it when it happened at first but I started getting bitter and pessimistic.

But someone told me to read this book called Mode One. And it definitely snapped me out of it.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

A gal being exposed as a cheater is one thing. That same gal being shameless when caught in her lies? The shamelessness is the part that hurts the most. Especially if they try to push my buttons after being caught in the act of betrayal!

Worse: Those who make up some BS story after they get caught, and play the victim around any white knight gullible enough to take her side without checking facts first!

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

I caught my then girlfriend cheating on me in the act. I'm on probation for puttings hands on the guy, and putting out me and the girl's sextape online. 3 years of probation left!

DaveJord · Answer

Sure can I dealt with it before. Its either a blessing or a curse, but I can turn it off and walk away from a women without ever looking back or shedding a tear.

luvstoned4him · Answer

It's through those that I've become tough emotionally as well as psychologically. #trustissues

Contra1166 · Answer

I have a remarkable ability to keep myself together no matter the circumstances but with that being said my trust is broken and that is 100% the end of said relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

In the sense that I'm capable of ending it immediately and moving on, yes. In the sense of continuing the relationship and "getting past it", hell no. That'll never happen.

XhmadRooz · Answer

Absolutely not, If someone have control of their body they won't cheat.
Moral standards and Ethics are really important. Immature behavior are unacceptable. Usually human can sniff other side bad energy and thinking.

DaveToo · Answer

It was 7 years ago and I still grumble about how she did it.

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s really a betrayal and feels terrible, it happened to me while married

KrakenAttackin · Answer

You don't have a choice. If someone cheats on you, you have to deal with it.

Slim57 · Answer

No it's scarred me for life pretty much, especially when it keeps happening

blish · Answer

It'll be hard in the starting but ik I'll eventually handle it.

Desconhecida · Answer

No. Never.

heheurmom · Answer

no i would die. i can't handle that

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

nope

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