Why do I always get cheated on?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Maybe because you ask loud, half sentence, vague questions?

Not sure the scenario, but I'll base my advice on it was revenge for you cheating first, with the entire kitchen staff of your local olive garden, even the weird middle aged lady that preps. Stop banging entire kitchen staffs, okay. Lol? Details baby, it's usually the details.

[Asker]

Thanks and pretty much is he cheated on me with my best friend and I believe was because I am a virgin and refuse to put out because he always told me I need to change something about me and that I was scared to.

[RichardBandit]

Oh well you will always lose to a ho.

[Asker]

Thanks for your help

[Opinion Owner]

Well... sorry, but you nailed it. Some guys will wait, others won't, just like women. Sex is as important to you not having it, as it is to others to have it. Choices you know. Not that I'm condoning it, I'm nit, an adult would leave first, play as a free agent.

[Synttacks]

Because you are picking guys with a higher sex drive than you and you're not satisfying them or you are picking assholes that would cheat anyway... Or both.

[Asker]

I think both what do you think and thanks for comment

[Synttacks]

Um... I don't know

[cflr0227]

I just read that you said your a virgin, that is absolutely the reason why, i am not proud of it at all but I used to have a friends with benefits thing with a guy who was dating a virgin because, he loved her but not many guys will put up without sex for too long, i doubt it has anything to do with your personality

[Asker]

Thanks and I believe that Is why I guess. I just don't want to have to change my body when he doesn't want to change.

[cflr0227]

Definetly it's entirely your choice to do what you want with yiur body

[Asker]

That is true

[effyourfeelings]

Unlucky perhaps?
Or you tend to fall for players and not notice the signs earlier on?

[Asker]

I think I don't notice the early signs.

[TheAli]

I got cheated on too, in 4 out of my 5 relationships.

[Asker]

Aww it is okay do you why got cheated on?

[TheAli]

No I don't know. Most of the times I get approached, a relationship is started, I get cheated nd after sometime they come back saying sorry nd stuff. Happened 2,3 times with me.

[TheAli]

How many times do you got cheated on?

[Asker]

Same thing happened to me and they want to forget about it and start from the beginning

[Asker]

I have had three relationships and they cheated on me but they were long term.

[TheAli]

But it ain't possible to forget.. It's nothing like before. You'll understand. Only you'll understand.

[Asker]

True and then you developed trust issue when go back

[TheAli]

I've had 5. It sucks, right?

[Asker]

Yes and then you keep thinking you did all this stuff wrong and they what you did wrong.

[TheAli]

Yeah. I had a girlfriend who said she had depression. I tried my best gave her all my time, did everything just to see her happy, turned out she was unhappy because she was in love with someone else. I was fooled around with for 4 months back then.

[Asker]

I know feeling

[TheAli]

Exactly. Maybe everything happens for good. So don't worry. It'd get better.

[TheAli]

Don't change yourself. If anyone needs you they should accept you the way you're.

[Asker]

Okay and thanks for letting me know that is was the only one that felt this way

[TheAli]

It's my pleasure. Mind if I ask you to send me a message in personals? Too straightforward I know but just want..

[Asker]

Go ahead I don't mind

[TheAli]

Okay. Can you send me a text here on my gag profile inbox?

[Asker]

It won't let me hold on I will follow and see if it will then

[Logorithim]

Always means exactly...

What kind of guys do you have as boyfriends?

[Logorithim]

*... exactly?

[Asker]

Jerks

[Logorithim]

There's your explanation. Go out with the nice guys.

[Asker]

I can never find a nice guy they all want sex and I am a virgin

[Logorithim]

Does that mean no sex before marriage under any circumstances?

[Asker]

No I just want to find the one that doesn't tell me change how I look and stuff or I can trust where I hate my body. But that is from bullies.

[Logorithim]

OK, surely you can find someone who won't do that and won't cheat...

[Asker]

Hard to find someone like that.

[livinglikelarry223]

You are choosing the wrong guys, go to a harry potter book club.

[Asker]

Lol love the Harry potter movies tho.

[livinglikelarry223]

Then you can start a great ice breaker with the guys there. People usually narrow their choices to one group of guys while others get overlooked. There are really great guys out there. Change your environment

[Asker]

Okay and thanks

[livinglikelarry223]

Np..

[Intraluminal]

For whatever reason, you *choose* guys who are going to cheat.

[Asker]

Poor judgement

[Intraluminal]

We often choose a "type" that we are familiar with, and if that type is a bad choice we continue make that choice despite the fact that we get hurt over and over.

[jirwin7979]

If i was with you i would not cheat on you... but you would probably leave me cause my sex drive is off the charts

[Asker]

Lol it is okay I just want one dude to say that I don't need to loose weight and not when I go out with a dude he is not checking out the other girl.

[jirwin7979]

Yea i know the feeling i was always put down for being timid shy shaved and not circumcised.. than my ex cheated on me and left

[Asker]

Oh god

[Rob199]

Cause all the scumbag as*holes seem to be attracted to you like they are to me

[Asker]

Thanks and that is the truth what is your story

[Rob199]

Had women cheat on me and had them cheat on their bfs and husbands with me

[Asker]

Oh wow sorry for you

[Rob199]

Thanks whats your story

[Asker]

Boyfriend was talking to me and four my best friends I decide to surprise him Friday walked in on it.

[Rob199]

Maybe he was talking to them about how great you are and how much he likes you

[Asker]

Oh yeah naked together is great right lol

[Rob199]

He was naked with 4 women?

[Asker]

No one of my best friend the three was talking about sleeping with some weeks ago

[skittles2017]

Cuz either you don't know to "keep" a guy either you attract "players"

[Asker]

I think I attract players because when we go on dates they always check out other people or tell me what I need to change about my self.

[HereIbe]

You like "exciting guys" and "fun guys" but ignore "boring guys", don't you?

[Asker]

Sometimes or the ones that give off of weird vibes

[HereIbe]

You just explained why you get cheated on.

[GreenGold1992]

Can you think of any reason why you always get cheated on? Is there a pattern?

[Asker]

They want sex and I am always to scared to let them take my virginity or they tell me I am to fat and need to loose weight.

[HereIbe]

Well, in that case, they'll find sex. So you need to prioritize. Maintain virginity or do what you have to in order to stay with a nasty sleazebag who doesn't deserve you in the first place.

[Asker]

Aww that Is sweet and why do you think they say I need to loose weight when I am only 150 pounds.

[GreenGold1992]

@HereIbe I think your problem may be you keep falling for assholes who only want sex. You should set your standards a little higher and not date any guy unless you know for sure they want you for you and not just sex.

[Asker]

I will and I wish they was one out there but majority of them want sex or nudes.

[GreenGold1992]

Trust me, you will find one one of these days, just don't waste your time of sex-hungry assholes. You can't always know what people want even if you think you know them enough, but as soon as you know they just want sex, throw their ass to the curb. Give it time and you will find someone who'll be willing to wait for you when you're ready.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[GreenGold1992]

You're very welcome
Also, 150 is nothing stress about losing unless you really want to

[Asker]

No it Is always the guys I date they tell me I need to loose weight.

[Asker]

And I am just happy to way I am.

[GreenGold1992]

Good for you

[Asker]

Thanks you really helped

[Anonymous]

It’s kind of hard to say w out knowing too much about you. Things such as the type of men you’re attracted to, why you’re attracted to that specific type. Do you take someone back once they’ve cheated on you?

[Asker]

I did that once won't do that again ever.

[Opinion Owner]

How many time should have you been cheated on? These were actual relationships?

[Asker]

Yes and three

[Opinion Owner]

What type of men do you go for?

[reptocarl]

Because you keep dating the same type of scum

[Asker]

Thanks and he cheated on me with my ex best friend

[ravedave]

Because you're attracted to shitty guys

[Asker]

I believe that Is true.

[Asker]

I just feel like I always get the crap end of the relationship

[Ronin82]

Because something is wrong with YOU. Self awareness should be your first priority.

[Asker]

Okay thanks for your help

[jr316366]

Cause men are stupid and boys are dumb

[Asker]

That is a good one.

[jr316366]

Hopefully you smiled cause they ain't worth crying over

[Asker]

Wish I did this yesterday and you got a smile out of me.

[jr316366]

Awesome 😊 just keep your head up and stay positive. The mountains we carry were meant to be climbed. Opportunity is a step ahead.

[Asker]

Okay I will and thank you for your help.

[jr316366]

Absolutely welcome thank you as well.

[Revolver_]

You are the type to get cheated on

[Asker]

How is that?🤔

[Revolver_]

I'm not sure

[Asker]

Thank you tho for your help!!

[Revolver_]

You're welcome

[ovoxo_]

Probably because you're a bad girlfriend

[Asker]

Wow and your probably a cheater. Also I am not a bad girlfriend. I have done everything he wanted even when he forgotten my birthday

[ovoxo_]

If they're ALL cheating on you then you're doing something wrong.

[Asker]

I know but I can never figure it out

[ovoxo_]

Do you put out?

[Asker]

No I am a virgin

[ovoxo_]

Understandable. Do you give head at least?

[skeetskeetskeet]

Because your a horrible person

[Asker]

Wow thanks for your help

[skeetskeetskeet]

Your welcome.. well I figured it might be to rude to say fat cunt right from the get go

[Asker]

Wow it is still ryde

[Asker]

Rude*

[Asker]

Let me guess ur divorced or been cheated on

[skeetskeetskeet]

No I'm just messing around... I'm sure your a great poa

[2opaz]

You are the type to get cheated on

[cancan73]

I really don't know

[Sev777]

didn't suck him up

[Asker]

What do you mean?🤔

[RichardBandit]

You're annoyingg af

[Asker]

Wow thanks