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Search Results: getting closure
My ex wants to get back together but I don't trust him?
We dated when we were 19-21 and it was a long distance relationship which he ended in the most brutal way. We had agreed to be in an open relationship and he never communicated that he wasn't comfortable with that and I...
victoriaxoxo
Xper 7 Age: 28 I feel that I messed up with a girl. How do I find closure or should I try talking to her?
So for context, this past summer I have been in a summer program for my new college that is for students to take classes on campus. It involves kids like me who graduated and is now transitioning to college life. So...
freeman_slavoca
Xper 2 Age: 22 Is going back to your ex really that bad?
Is going back to your ex that broke up with you really that awful and desperate? I’ve never been the kind of person that could leave her feelings aside and I’ve been having the hardest time for the last two months....
Anonymous
(30-35) What would you assume (about both yourself and the ghoster), if someone acted highly interested but ghosted you without warning?
The term is "mosting", when they act highly interested, then ghost you and fall off the face of the Earth, without any explanation or effort to give the person any closure. How would you react to being treated like that?...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to completely forget an ex?
We separated a while ago. I never got any closure and she immediately cut me out and blocked me and we have not spoken since the breakup. Emotionally I have moved on and I have stopped contacting her and given up hope of...
Anonymous
(30-35) A guy has apologized to me when I called him out on his abusive behaviour but continued to argue about something else right after? Wtf?
For months I was trying to get over the mental abuse I suffered from a guy always being critical of me accusing me of being sexist (I never was by the way) and straight out told me he was annoyed by my very existence....
Anonymous
(25-29) Are exes discussed in rehab?
My ex broke up with me and never was able to give me an answer because I don’t think he rlly knew why he did. He’s impulsive sometimes. But hasn’t been able to leave me alone even after going out on dates for a year. He...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is 7 months too long to spend in a talking stage?
Is staying in a talking stage for 7 months too long? Cuz it's entirely online, it's impossible for us to meet. We needed time to get to know each other. Now, it's getting to an end without getting a real and clear...
Anonymous
(18-24) Don’t you just feel so free when you escape something toxic?
I’ve probably slept 2-4 hours for a good while now and I hope to get that back on track starting tomorrow. Today I think i slept 1 hour. But thats because things finally ended with the Gemini. I’m going to leave...
How to get over someone you never even dated?
Female 20 here. started talking to this guy nearly a year ago (age 22). He told my friend he was interested in me so I decided to message him. He was always so sweet to me and affectionate and I thought “yay its finally...
Decadence434
Xper 2 Age: 25 I wrote my ex a letter and he reached out?
I’m (30) f my ex is (42) m we split up around 2 months ago which was my decision. He has depression and was going through a hard time and kept pushing me away and ignoring me. I would tell him time and time again how him...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you confess you have done wrong to other people in dating? How do you move forward now?
I often find myself getting angry and blaming modern women for lots of unfair crap over the years. Being a hetero man I can say without a doubt I’ve had more harm done to me than I’ve done to others. However when I am...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, Does the no contact rule work?
I understand this will have one of two outcomes. Either him reaching out after some reflection or me just getting used to us not talking and getting on with my life. Been talking to an amazing guy these past 4 months....
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is this situationship so painfully hard to get over?
Female 20 here. I started talking to a guy about 7 months ago (age22). He had told my friend he was interested in me and she told me so I decided to give it a go. He was always so sweet to me and affectionate and I...
Decadence434
Xper 2 Age: 25 I confronted my ex. Do you think I appeared desperate in my pursuit of closure?
I chose to confront my ex for my own benefit. He was my first and I needed closure. I wasn't overly emotionally into him. I asked him for the real reasons as to why he dumped me for the reasons he provided were illogical...
Anonymous
(25-29) My ex says we’re over for good, but continues to call and text me. Why is he being so hot and cold?
My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for close to two months now. He broke up with me mid-fight one evening, impulsively. For two weeks I was very heartbroken, but he did not make any attempts to fix things....
LeoPride93
Xper 5 Age: 32 To Love Or To Be In Love
How many significant others would you say you’ve been IN LOVE with versus how many you just LOVED? #FeelFreeToList in the comments below. And please share how you came to know the difference....
How do I move on from an ex?
I got an ex girlfriend I thought was the one. Obviously isn't. Me and her met through a job in a town neither one us are from. I'm from an inner city bad neighborhood, who moved out to do good for myself, she was a real...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I try and talk to him or just walk away?
A guy friend of mine and I were getting closer and starting to cross the line from friendship to something else recently (cuddling, sharing a bed most weekends, flirting, texting a lot, spending loads of time together)....
Anonymous
(25-29) I'm getting back in the dating game but what is up with my ex? Why is he keeping this up?
To make a long story short, my ex told me back in September that he was seeing another girl. For most this year, him and I had been talking I thought things were getting back on track for us to get together. Well toward...
sd1223
Yoda Age: 29 