Search Results: he is scared from past relationships

My ex boyfriend scares me? Has he become an INCEl?

My ex and I were together for two years. We broke up a month ago. Before me he was single for 10 years and his last relationship she cheated on him. He blamed himself for that. I was trying to work it out with him this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he trying to gain control by making me jealous and question everything?

He wants an open relationship as he’s scared of monogamy. He’s been hurt in the past and has admitted to sabotaging relationships to get the control and upper hand. We’re best friends and he tells me he loves me everyday....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it possible to rebuild a friendship/relationship with a really good guy I messed up with/pushed away?

This guy and I have mutual friends and started talking because of them. This was roughly a year ago. We really hit it off and would talk all day every day, him initiating. We'd talk about anything and everything and even...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to make it easier to move on from past relationships?

I found my spouses and I'm having my 3rd baby soon with my spouses. But I'm having a hard time to digest and move on from my first previous relationship because I keep getting relationship depression from my first...

Sailormoon95

Xper 4 Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Why does she act distant after break up?

So I know this girl who had a boyfriend and one day she started snapping me and we talked a lot and had good conversations together over the next month. She also sent very revealing pics almost daily. Now she broke up...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Is my ex a narcissist?

When we met, he was lying to me to be divorced, but he was still married. He told me also other lies, but I gave him other chance, but I still didn't feel safe in our relationship. We had several fights about this and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, are you most likely to consider virgin guys as low quality?

That's the treatment I generally receive and always have seen experienced guys get better treatment from women. I have said no to some sexual advances and relationships in the past and waited for love. However, with age,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

RE: "Why are you pro-choice?" (The SIXTH Damn Abortion Argument I've Done on Here.)

A response to this post, since the cowardly anon erased it the first time. So now you've made me make this crap. THE QUESTION "Why are you pro-life/pro-choice?" I am very much pro choice. I've explained this before,...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Does he have feeling for me?

I met a guy 1.5 years ago and we have been talking for about a year. We both live in the same small town, but we occasionally hang out (I do know how busy his work is, from early morning till late night). He initiate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Tips to start trusting again?

Almost all of my relationship and dating trauma stems from them saying things and then later finding out they didn't mean any of it to the point where im now in the healthiest relationship I've ever been in but whenever...

emptymind

Xper 3 Age: 29

Is he a decent guy?

I met a guy online and we talked back and forth a bit for a month or two, he wanted to hang out a few times, but between my work schedule and nerves from my past and bad relationships it took a bit for me to talk myself...

orosamuari22

Xper 5 Age: 28

Can a man with past trauma ever learn to accept love again?

We started out as “friends with benefits” and from day one he was warning me not to catch feelings because he just wanted to be casual. I agreed to those terms. Over the months, he was the one that started pushing things...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says you confuse him?

I asked a guy friend out to grab drinks. He initially said yes and started texting more enthusiastically then he's ever done in our whole friendship. I asked where he'd want to go and made a suggestion and he was super...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever lied about being a cheater due to pressure?

So I need advice, I asked my husband during a really emotional conversation to be honest about any past situations he kept from me to help us move on and to help him clear his guilt. He said he would be honest with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I know I should jump in the relationship?

Been conflicted on completely trusting this guy. We’ve known each other for about more than an year but started to seriously talk for 3 months on a regular basis. He’s a guy who respects my time boundaries, fun to talk...

Anonymous

(36-45)

One of my High School (14 Male) Classmate called me "Babe" and we locked eyes and he smiled genuinely at me. I barely know him. What does this mean?

For more details: This all started probably 4 or 5 weeks ago. He randomly call me "babe" and I dont know why. Is he teasing me playfully or... insulting me? For now, I notice he is only saying this pet name only to me....

CuteSmuggleBear

Xper 2 Age: 19

To all the men out there, wondering what women really want.

I've been asked to write something like this a few times by several different people so here goes. What I want in a man Everyone is different in what they are looking for. I can only say what I personally look for and...

Aerissa_Jade

Guru Age: 25

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With this being my healthy relationship after toxic, how long will I live in fear of my insecurities? From knowing the wrong?

I'm in my first healthy relationship, and I feel my happiest. From my dating experience, they've all been VERY awful. I got cheated on, ghosted, manipulated and such. I've made mistakes, and I've learned. Opened my eyes a...

Anonymous

(25-29)