Girls, are you most likely to consider virgin guys as low quality?

[Anonymous]

That's the treatment I generally receive and always have seen experienced guys get better treatment from women.

I have said no to some sexual advances and relationships in the past and waited for love. However, with age, I am seeing girls don't treat virgin guys well. They tend to mock or consider them less manly.

I am scared that anyone in the future will take me for granted and consider themselves superior.

Recently, I got one offer from an older but attractive single mom for an friends with benefits. I don't like or love her but considering it.

[SpanishRose]

To be honest with you I'd rather have someone not as experienced than a f*boy for a LTR. Because honestly being in a relationship takes time to build, to learn what each other likes, dislikes every person is different so it would be like learning together. I don't know why people criticize virgins. There is nothing wrong with a male or female who are less experienced.

I guess I see where people are coming from if they are only interested in a 1 nighter (never had one, don't see the appeal) they are going to want a very experienced person. But just know not everyone thinks this way. Good luck to you.

[Asker]

Okay, understandable, but don't you think it's humiliating to brand someone for LTR and some for a short-term fun?

[DermalPunch]

Do not sleep with this older woman. She is looking for an ego boost.

Our society is sick and corrupt. Because you are not doing what everyone else is doing it feels like something is wrong with you.

Men do the dumbest and most despicable things to get their dicks wet but you have exercised control. Who is the manly one?

I don't know if you are high or low quality because I don't know if you are honest or deceitful. Transparent or manipulative, etc.

There are some men who manage to get plenty of women into bed and don't have clue what they are doing. Frankly, a lot of these players are just using women to masturbate and aren't lovers at all.

It will require heaps of patience but if you are waiting for marriage... do that. I don't think you are but that's my advice.

[Asker]

On dates, girls brag about their ex-boyfriends and their lavish adventures, or ghost after hearing or ask creepy questions and considering what's wrong with me. M

[Asker]

Male friends make fun of me and don't want to take me on trips with their partners, one of the reasons I almost have no friends anymore as everyone is in relationships. I am not religious but grew up in a deeply religious family. I am 27 and being single forever is hard. It's hard sexually true, people get urges but I never even had a kiss or anything so it's not the sex I miss. I see so many girls love their boyfriends, care for them, and wander around during holidays and I don't get a single person to give a fuck even if I am sick for days, it's always me, whatever happens.
At my age woman being a virgin is almost impossible and I am not actively looking for one. However I am not sure how girls with multiple partners will treat me, most likely they will not care and treat me badly or just a safe option, as they already had fun.
Female friends or even girls from dating sites recommend using prostitutes for experience, which I never wanted but as time goes I think I may have to say yes.

[DermalPunch]

well, I have no issues with virgins. When ypu do things differently prepared to be mocked, excluded and derided. It takes strength and patience.

[Asker]

yes, but sometimes I do wonder about missing out on young love, by this age I don't think I will find anybody like me, so will never know what is like to be someone's first love and sex or whether any future girl will actually like me as a person or will just see as a safe option for settling down.

[DermalPunch]

love is overrated

[Pinz89]

No, not at all. It's admirable that you are waiting for someone special, considering most men rush into it. I don't think you are less manly, and it's masculine in my mind that you have a level head. Don't consider doing it. Please.

[Asker]

Most dates think that something's wrong with me or brag about their lavish past sex lives. It's been lonely for years now. Girls my age range have tons of previous relationships, they already want to date experienced men. Later perhaps no one will like me , experienced women don't care too , so probably get a bad treatment if can't perform well

[Pinz89]

Trust me, If a woman is concerned about your sex experience, you should be with her or consider being in the same vicinity. Sex isn't guaranteed a long last relationship, great treatment, and loyalty. But I understand how you feel. Dating someone well of in sex experience can be intimidating because of their sex drive. That can lead to cheating and things like that. Just take your time. No need to rush!

[Pinz89]

*not be with her or consider being in the same vicinity

My mistake-

[Asker]

I actually have a high sex drive

[Sour-rose]

I'd consider them an egg and a liability. Either he wants me and keeps it like that or wants to fk me but knows I'll never agree, so he dips. :c sooo low quality? Idgaf, virgin or not. Just deal with my dumbass and let's cuddle sometimes.

[Agape93]

Considering virgins are no secually safer disease wise, they have no idea what they're doing, they have 0 stamina and tend to finish too quickly etc. Yeah, they can be easily seen as low quality lovers.

[Ms_Facesitter]

It really depends on how you look at it. But I don't consider them low quality. The first few times might suck, but we can get over that with some regular practice ;)

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I don't. But that's because I think it's stupid to not date someone just because they have their virginity still.

[anon1903]

Nope. Because from that perspective, even I as a virgin am useless. That's very dehumanizing.

I hope you find someone who appreciates it.

[AsaKyo]

I guess that means I'm considered a low quality woman going by that logic

[Asker]

Men love female virgins , at least as much I have seen

[AsaKyo]

I kinda doubt that considering they have zero experience and would do a horrible job at pleasing them

[Minahh]

Yeah most of them indeed do because of the innocence bullshit

[SweetTwistedSatanist]

Not low quality but just not experienced. It's a big deal to me if you would want to have your first time to be with me.

[TacosRAwesome]

Not necessarily but my preference is slightly experienced.

[Minahh]

I consider them high quality, depends on other factors tho