Search Results: i freeze up

Surely I am not the only one. I am now approaching 8 months being unable to secure another job in my industry. I had an interview scheduled recently, just to be canceled by the employer due to hiring freezes at the company. I am growing more hopeless.

Underemployment is when you have a degree or are highly skilled, yet you are stuck working low-end, menial, or entry jobs that are well below your skills or capabilities. Examples being a surgeon having to pick up a job as a convenience store clerk because he cannot get a job in his field. Or a well renound software engineer having to stock shelves at the grocery store. Or a nurse flipping burgers at a fast food joint.

Unemployment is obvious. You just don't have a job, period.

I was flicking through TV channels. One was a fertility clinic reality. The reason I paused on it was the girl was having her eggs harvested and fertilized by a sperm donor.

My first thought was would I accept this, if I subsequently dated her? Would other guys?

OK harvesting and preserving her eggs, if she is getting to an age where she might not produce viable eggs any more, is one thing but getting them fertilized seems a bit insulting to a future partner.

If I dated a girl and she told me the deal is I accept not having paternity, but do all the other father stuff I would feel insulted. How about you?

With a single mom at least you know the deal straight up before you went on a date.

Girls if you dated a guy and he told you he had bought some eggs and fertilized them with his sperm because the donor was superbly beautiful and he wanted the best genes possible for his children. Your role is to be the loving surrogate. What would you think?