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30F & I wonder if most women get where I’m coming from. I’ve never been in a real relationship, saw someone very briefly in my early twenties. Haven’t had sex either since then and don’t feel the need to, masturbating doesn’t do anything for me. Also doesn’t help that I’m not the friendliest, the only way I’ve met up with guys over the years were on dating apps. I get attention on them but it just feels off in a way, I’ve always felt like I am going to end up alone. I don’t want kids but like the idea of getting married, over the years people have justified my single status to being picky or shy etc. Those are excuses or cop outs, I feel like compared to the average woman though I likely get less attention from guys in person.

Literally the only attention I’ve gotten from guys I find attractive are on dating apps, in person maybe someone I was outside with would tell me that this guy looked at me etc (on and off throughout the years). But they never make it known to me directly, it makes me second guess things. It’s like I always wonder why I never have a boyfriend if I’m told I’m attractive, I also hear about a lot of introverted/socially awkward women that are in long term relationships. I really wonder if finding the right person is the answer to all my issues, I’ve spoken to guys in the past and tend to find ways to get out of it before I determine if they’re a good fit or not. Something about guys has always felt…different. Since I was in my teens, never got the craze with being boy crazy etc.

30F and I wonder if most women get where I’m coming from. I’ve never been in a real relationship, saw someone very briefly in my early twenties. Haven’t had sex either since then and don’t feel the need to, masturbating doesn’t do anything for me. Also doesn’t help that I’m not the friendliest, the only way I’ve met up with guys over the years were on dating apps. I get attention on them but it just feels off in a way, I’ve always felt like I am going to end up alone. I don’t want kids but like the idea of getting married, over the years people have justified my single status to being picky or shy etc. Those are excuses or cop outs, I feel like compared to the average woman though I likely get less attention from guys in person.

Literally the only attention I’ve gotten from guys I find attractive are on dating apps, in person maybe someone I was outside with would tell me that this guy looked at me etc (on and off throughout the years). But they never make it known to me directly, it makes me second guess things. It’s like I always wonder why I never have a boyfriend if I’m told I’m attractive, I also hear about a lot of introverted/socially awkward women that are in long term relationships. I really wonder if finding the right person is the answer to all my issues, I’ve spoken to guys in the past and tend to find ways to get out of it before I determine if they’re a good fit or not. Something about guys has always felt…different. Since I was in my teens, never got the craze with being boy crazy etc.

This is a business transaction, and I am not interested in being her friend. She is constantly asking about my friend group as if she's hoping I'd invite her to hang out with us. She has severe diarrhea of the mouth and envy issues and is
just socially awkward, so I see why she doesn't have friends. I tend to observe and be very selective with who is in my friend circle. And no, I have not invited her to hang out and never will.

My opinion: people with no friends are a red flag

A lot of you ladies are delusional thinking you're going to get a successful man when you have nothing to offer. You chicks are delusional, aren't attractive, have no personality, are insecure, are not smart, socially awkward, weird, and have mental health issues and lack emotional control. You're not getting a rich man or any man.

Often/ majority of the time, very wealthy men are with women who are within their circle who also happen to be successful. These women may not be as rich as these men, but they are successful and established.



Simple examples are pictured below:

Rihanna (Musician and business owner) was asked out by Billionaire Sheikh Hassaan and dated.

Janet Jackson ( well renowned musician basically music royalty sister to Michael Jackson and cousin of Steve Wonder and Samuel l. Jackson) was asked out by billionaire sheikh , married him and had a child with.

Grimes (Musician Rock Nation signed by Jay z) was in a relationship with Elon Musk south African billionaire Tesla cars and paypal business owner. She is also the mother of his child

Venus Williams ( successful athlete) married and asked out by reddit Armenian business owner Alexis Ohanian.