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Known her since a young age, she is your 11! Pure, hasn't dated, high value, self esteem, quality, classy, style, smarts, perfect curves, you know her character, she is your 11! You kept yourself pure as well. Others are hot, but they don't measure up!

You feel powerful LOVE for her (think of her best interests, patience, ooey gooey feelings), you are a little older, she's just 19 and getting close to starting dating. You desire (lust) her as well, you think about her, but LOVE is the powerful emotion at play!

You've stated your interest in her and she's flattered and smitten, she responds positively! But she has options, and is confused and somewhat restricted by family values. She plans to hold off until 21, then she'll start dating, that's her fathers rule and she respects her father! But the fact she is even considering you, makes you feel amazing!

And then Chad Thundercock shows up!

He is kryptonite to her female senses, she caves, he has his way with her! It was one time, she was at a place of weakness... it's a female, hormones, some guys have this power! She knows better and is remourseful... just one time and he was gone, he got what he wanted, another notch in his...

Not long later you get the message.

Chad is nowhere to be found, he's out!
Q1: How do you feel about her?

She's in a different place now, and she expresses her love for you. She's in need now and she states how of all the guys, she LOVES you and always did! She's SOOOOOO Sorry! She wants you, and begs of you!
Lets say you reject her cause the pain is too great!
2yrs go by, she kept herself pure through this, you know her circle and she did! She reaches out to you as she wants you! She sends you pics! She makes her play for you... this is your 11 guys, with accessory now!

Question: Would you take a chance with her to build a family? Or would you take the pain and move on?

If you’re in a relationship there’s a 50/50 chance your woman has a “Plan B” man

According to a survey conducted by OnePoll. com half of women who are married or in relationships have a Plan B man on standby who is “ready and waiting”

The survey found nearly half of the respondents had a man on deck that they could call out to the plate. However, this man isn’t any rookie; he’s likely to be one of the woman’s all-star friends she’s had around for seven years. More than four in 10 women admitted they had got to know this man while they were with their partner, while almost the same percent said he was “on the scene” long before the relationship.

A quarter of the ladies blatantly admitted they have strong feelings for their Plan B as they do for their current partner, while 15 percent responded with feeling more for the Plan B man than their significant other

“For our research to establish that 50 percent of women in relationships have a 'Plan B' is a worrying sign,” said the OnePoll. com spokesman.

“Keeping your girlfriend interested is part of keeping your relationship healthy. Make no mistake about it — the “game” never ends.

I personally do not actively keep female friends as a straight male unless I am interested in dating them.

Here me out.

Dating is complicated. I’d never want my woman to feel like she’s in the doghouse because one of my old friends made a reappearance or that I found someone more interesting to talk to for any given length of time.

I just don’t want the drama.

Inversely, I do get jealous when I don’t have anything to talk about with my girl that some other guy does. The way I see it as a man, is a guy won’t go out of his way to listen to you if he doesn’t have to, unless he wants to and it’s more often than not because he’s interested in you.

There is only a few things that the attracting sex can offer you that other friends can’t. So I try to make it a habit to date friends as if my woman can be my best friend than what else do I need from other women?

But what’s your opinion on it? Do you actively keep friends of your attracting sex.

Some of us probably know that keeping a woman happy can be a varying level of possibility. One woman is happy to see you again and feels good about your mere presence and you having your arms wrapped around her. The other woman can barely be happy after having her dinners and drinks paid by you and you giving your 90% energy at the cost of your own things. Or she didn't like your presents color. Or she can't deal with the fact, that you're forgetful or like playing call of duty. Or she doesn't like your lack of interest in politics.

back to my question: How many good men does it take to keep one woman happy?