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Search Results: relationship red flags
How do I tell a guy nicely that he talks too much?
I went on a second date and this man spoke for two hours straight about himself, ... again. First time around I thought it's because he is nervous. I tried to get some comments in but he spoke over me each time. During a...
Anonymous
(36-45) How would you handle this situation? I'm trying to move on?
My guy friend and I had been friends for 4+ years (our relationship became complicated) when he decided that he was going to date my friend after we had gotten close basically dating but he never asked me out and tried to...
Anonymous
(30-35) What does “i don’t want to feel taken for granted” mean when a guy says that in a relationship?
As I’m getting to know him, i’ve been asking about what annoys him, dealbreakers, what he sees as red flags.. etc. i’ve gotten the same answer multiple times now. when i probe and ask like in what way, he’s still not...
DreamCrescent
Xper 7 Age: 39 My boyfriend locked me in a room? Is it over for us?
My boyfriend had never shown any major red flags before, but recently he became extremely jealous and possessive. He believed I had cheated on him and suddenly grabbed my phone out of my hands by force. When he couldn’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) Anyone else experienced issues that return in relationships?
Before in my past my experiences with dating, relationships made me state my case, no hope? Then avoid or end it. Only to face these issues, red flags, again. I have changed tactic, attitude towards them, trying to change...
Noredcarpet
Xper 5 Age: 46 My new boyfriend is hiding IG stories from me and still adding girls… Should I walk away?
I (F, 35) started dating a guy (M, 31) recently and we made things official about a week ago. He flew twice internationally to meet me in person and date me before we were together. And we're now in a long distance...
Anonymous
(30-35) I went on a date with a girl, got along pretty well, ended up going back to her place and hooking up, but now I don’t want a second date?
So we were talking for about a week, we both want long term relationships (I’m open to short, but I do want something long lasting). We got along great on the date, I was a little tipsy and she was laughing at everything...
jfarm
Xper 4 Age: 34 Should I be concerned that my boyfriend does not post me on social media?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost Four years. I normally would have never thought about him not posting me on social media, but red flags started happening. Mutual friends of ours would tag us in photos and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it wrong that I'm not interested in starting a relationship with women older than 28, and I'm 32?
I've been putting a lot of work into finding my soulmate the last few years. I have a good life and great job, the one thing missing in my life is the girl of my dreams. I really want to find my special someone to spend...
Cool3991
Xper 1 Age: 32 My boyfriend is doing nicotine and he didn’t tell me?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have a rocky relationship. I have trust issues and I feel triggered by things he says like “What mamma don’t know won’t kill her.” He’ll say that and says it’s from a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this a red flag?
So, one of the guys I’ve been getting to know via the dating app- he is cute, intelligent, curious and open minded and we flirt and have good banter too. However, it’s only been a few days and he suggests that we can be...
Girls, would it be a red flag if a man was in his late 20s and only had been in one relationship at 21?
Also that one relationship was the only time he's ever even kissed someone
Anonymous
(25-29) Dumper over Birthday gift after 7 months?
I started dating a coworker people suggested I get to know. I had just come out of a breakup and wasn’t that interested at first, but we got closer and eventually started dating. Around that time, my mom passed away, and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Has frequently being sa lead me to abusers?
T. W~ pregnancy, sex, sex assault, abuse. I left my abuser in June. I went on a sex spree. I put myself in a dangerous situation and was getting attacked. Anyway, I met this guy. He was lovely. But I should have...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
The girl who my friend used to date tells me she never dated anyone in college before. Is this a red flag?
So I had a crush on a female classmate in college years ago. But since my best friend also liked her and told her sooner that he likes her I did not tell her how I felt during college. They relationship did not work out...
HopelessLord
Xper 4 Age: 29 Should I downplay how close I am to my parents especially my mom to avoid triggering any red flags when dating?
I'm afraid most people would take my relationship with my parents the wrong way because we're still extremely close.
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this normal?
I'm only making this post once and thats it. Im so heartbroken and can't see my boyfriend the same anymore. My boyfriend has a discord with him and his IRL friends (some are online) but these are people he's very...
p0kerfake1972
Xper 3 Age: 29 What’s wrong with him and can someone explain?
I was on Yubo. Yubo is an app where you can find friends or relationships. This guy texted me new friends and he sent his number. I said I’ll text you after I get finished calling someone and he sent red flag emoji. How...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girls, how would you feel if your boyfriend would NOT be mad if you ever cheated on him?
I don't mean "not mad" in the sense that he is quietly planning his revenge, but rather that he would be very calm and understanding about the situation and that he will love you the same. Let's say you cheat on your...
Anonymous
(25-29) 