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it would seem logical. someone who's jacked at 18 and loves life isn't thinking about how to maximize their wealth. by the time they're aging out of peak sexual value, they've hit 30 and don't have the drive to do anything bigger. my proof for all this is how it appears paradoxical or ironic when you see someone rich who has muscles, who's tall, good looking, really good mannered, patient, friendly. And I'm not talking about guys who make 300k a year. although it might be the case for them too. I'm primarily talking about the guys who always wanted to be filthy rich like Bill Gates and Warren buffet. Steve Jobs seemed less concerned with money overall than creating new technology. I'd put him somewhere in-between Bill Gates and a star QB. goes to show men who are rich who don't have shit genetics can actually accomplish a lot, because it isn't and never was about the money.

Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could easily meet girls by finding common ground in classes, and since I was good looking and successful, it was easy. In fact, most of the time, they were the ones who came to talk to me.

When I went to university for engineering, the number of girls decreased a lot. I stayed without a girlfriend for a long time. I got tired of this situation, so one day I approached a random girl I liked in the library, found an excuse to start talking, gave her a compliment, and got her Instagram. While doing this, I was so stressed my hand was shaking when I gave her my phone. But I succeeded it felt like I had unlocked a new skill in flirting.

I’m curious can you cold approach? And are you comfortable doing it?

I think for most people, skydiving creates less stress than cold approaching.