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Girls, I found out the man that I am dating and trying to have a family with is married. How do I confront him?

I am 38 and want to be a mother. I have tried dating for the past 10 years and no one that I have dated, wants to get married or have kids. I am getting older and want to have children while I still can. I decided to use a sperm donor in order to get pregnant. I went on a sperm donor app and ended up meeting a man who did not live too far from me. We began talking and decided that he would help me donate. My journey began and what started out as supposed to be a sperm donor/recipient relationship ended up becoming more. I was falling head over heels for this guy, and he was with me. He said that he always wanted to be a father himself, after many months of trying, and with an immense physical, emotional and spiritual bond, we decided that we didn’t want to have just a sperm donor/recipient relationship, instead that we both wanted to be together. We begin officially dating and things have been absolutely wonderful lately. He is younger than I am, and since I am older, it has taken me a while to get pregnant. I was telling my pregnancy journey woes to my friend at work yesterday. He was telling me that he was surprised at my choice in wanting to have a family with this man that I haven’t known for very long. I told him that I had strong feelings for him and that we were happy together. This did not quell my friend’s anxiety, and so he decided to dig into my bf’s background. He ended up finding out that in June of this year, he had gotten married. In his house, there was no hint of him having a wife, nor his social media. But what my had friend dug up through a background check and extensive digging, was his wife’s social media account with pictures of their wedding. As you can imagine, I have been completely devastated by this news. I am not the kind of woman that cheats or steals another woman’s husband, and I would’ve never even have considered using him as a sperm donor that I known that he had a wife. I know that I want to confront him, but I don’t know how.

Girls, I found out the man that I am dating and trying to have a family with is married. How do I confront him?
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