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I was 16 weeks into my pregnancy when I decided I didn't want to have a baby. I know I should've thought it through before having unprotected sex, but I thought a little too late. I didn't want to drag an innocent soul into a world where I couldn't give it all it needed/wanted. I thought about putting it up for adoption, but possibly not knowing the home it would end up in worried me. That's when I turned to the only option that was somewhat comforting; abortion.

Without telling a soul, including the father, I went to the doctors and was soon prescribed abortion pills. I took them like so, and I was no longer pregnant.

A few days later, my boyfriend came to see me, in which I really didn't want him to, but this was something I couldn't hide from him forever. I knew he was excited to be a father. It was one of the first things he talked about when we started dating. Now, as you'd expect, he was severely upset and now he doesn't want to talk to me at all. The last time I heard from him was 2 weeks ago, and the last thing he told me was that I was irresponsible, that I'm a liar, that he hated me.

I feel as if what I did was wrong, and I think that I should just stay away from him, but I don't want us to end on such bad terms. I don't know if I can say anything that would trigger his forgiveness.

I really do dislike people that can't be responsible. Men & women. I've seen numerous comments by guys here about not being responsible for their bastards. I've seen numerous comments by girls here about using abortion like birth control.

Are they NOT adults?

If you are not responsible at your job do you expect to keep it?

Do you expect your boss to say yeah you're a dipshit but we'll keep you anyway?

Do you expect your colleagues to say yeah you're lazy & good for little, but we'll do your work for you as well as our own?

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So why don't you TRY to GROW UP and BE an ADULT? Be a MAN. Be a WOMAN. Someone that society can look upon and say he/she is an ADULT.

Not a toddler with their diapers still on crying about unfair life & blaming everyone cause they can't do anything as an adult. Because they're an embarrassment as an adult?

You're adults. Fucking try to be one. BE RESPONSIBLE.

Or for women like this - get your tubes tied.

For men like this - get a vasectomy.

Take yourself out of the gene pool because if you don't contribute much any children are only going to contribute less to society.