I met a guy and we quickly started dating and getting intimate. We started seeing each other every day. We really liked each other, although I seen some red flags, primarily with his refusal to communicate. So I started texting less and he started texting more. One day I went out of town for a week and he contacted me every day to see how I was and when I was coming back. When we finally met up we had sex unprotected for the first time and he left. The next day I told him I felt guilty bc he was no my boyfriend. He didn’t respond. After a couple days I lost it and told him I felt used. He didn’t respond to that either. He would later contact me and told me he was upset bc of what I said. I told him he should have just told me what was bothering him and we could have talked instead of ignoring me for weeks. We made up but he never really made an effort, I made all the efforts. Which he accepted but I started getting upset. Because I would ask him to do things w me and he would decline bc he was still upset. I started getting soo overwhelmed one day he texted me saying that next time I come over sick let him know bc now he’s sick. I told him I’m not sick I have asthma, we both do. He accused me of having Covid. No good morning or anything. So I lost it and told him I’m done with him. I apologized after and he refused my apology. Will be realize his mistakes in this too and come back?
Why are you even with him or trying to be with him? He clearly is putting no effort. You guys dated too fast and you know what they say. What starts fast ends fast. Plus you two already slept together, so there is no more effort for him to put. He reaches out to you when it is convenient to him because he wants sex. His actions clearly says it. You'll just end up in this roller coaster of emotions because it's best to take the time to get to know someone and what they want. Also it is best to hold of from sleeping too soon because now he isn't wine and dining you. He isn't picking you up or going out on dates to get to know you because it was so easy to get you. It's up to you what you want to do going forward with him, but I say save yourself and move on. There are plenty of guys out there that will communicate how you want them to
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He's not coming back and you can be thankful for that. He's not worth your time.
I suggest you move on and don't waste more time with him.
You know what the answer is and your instincts are righr
Priorities... go get yourself tested. Unprotected sex? I wouldn't even dare kiss a stranger on the lips in this day and age!
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