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I was chatting with my crush today and I may be reading too much into it, but I feel like he sort of inadvertently hinted that he finds me beautiful.

We were chatting about random stuff and we got onto the subject of makeup (random, I know). I was saying how I take makeup on holiday but I don’t really wear it that often. I then said (as a joke), “I like to think I’m naturally beautiful”

My crush then said, “exactly, exactly” but he avoided eye contact as he said it and he had a smile on his face.

There was a similar situation a month or so ago where he said he doesn’t like talking to other people because he can’t be bothered. I said, “I must be pretty awesome if you’re talking to me then” and he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours” and when he said this, he looked away smiling.

Does his reaction indicate that he thinks I’m beautiful?

The backstory is a guy I met online over a year ago started acting different and friend zoned me some months after I found out his real identity.

I’m feeling hurt and I want him to know that but also open to talking through the issue if he wants to.

I came up with two different messages I’m thinking of sending. One is really long and the other is more to the point without excessive details.

We still talk regularly.

Which do you prefer?

A. Hey so there’s something that I’ve been wanting to share with you for quite awhile now.

I’m feeling confused and hurt knowing that you continued to engage in sexual conversations with me for so long when you were actually feeling wary of me. It really makes me wonder if you are being genuine with me at all.

As I said almost a year ago, I fully understand if you don’t want to talk now that I know who you are. But feeling like I need to pretend that I don’t know your name and having to wonder whether you’re talking to me just to avoid conflict makes me feel like the connection might not be natural anymore.

I know I can’t change your feelings, but I’m working on cultivating more self-love and that doesn’t negate mine. As much as I enjoy talking to you, unless we can talk this through and change our dynamic, I feel that I’m disrespecting myself by continuing to chat with you.

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts on this!

B. Hey so I wasn’t expecting you to reach out after I left (website where we met) and after some thought, I think I need to let this friendship go.

I’m working on cultivating more self-love, and as much as I enjoy talking to you, unless our dynamic changes, continuing to do so is hurting my self-esteem.

Open to talking about it but also don’t want to bore you with a long message.

Take care 😊

So I have three examples of when I think my crush was complimenting me

1) He was telling me that he can’t be bothered to talk to other people. I said, “well I must be pretty awesome if you’re talking to me” and he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours”. However, when he said this, he didn’t make eye contact when normally he holds eye contact

2) He was saying that his mum didn’t like his beard, and he said to her “I’m half of you so I have your looks”. I said, “I’m glad that I didn’t get my dads beak of a nose, I have my mums eyes” and he replied with, “you’re blessed then”

3) He was talking about how exotic the weather was. I said, “I’d put my bikini on but think everyone would be visually offended”. As soon as I said this, he started to walk off, but he smiled and said “you’re chatting shit, you are”

Was he complimenting me in these situations and was he subtly hinting that he finds me attractive?

So I have a situation with a guy friend, we have known each other for 3 years.

A little while back we started chatting about our sex lives and preferences. I noticed he kept saying if we did x when he was asking about positions etc. He then started to touch more giving me shoulder massages.

Last week he was trying to get me on bumble and was picking pictures he saw some sexy ones I had sent to an ex and wanted to see them and more, the tension was crazy and he told me he jacked off to the pics and that we had crazy sexual tension. Is he just listing now or does he actually like me (not just sexually)

We have known each other for 3 years we haven't only talked about sex only lately in the last month or two. Before this we got on well, he would walk me home from nights out sometimes, he would ask what food or drink I liked, movies, holidays life etc.