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28F, yes I’m straight or if any other sexuality I’d be asexual. I download tinder 2 weeks ago & have been speaking to someone on it since. I took a chance & decided to not videochat/call him beforehand, lord I should’ve. He didn’t catfish me but I just got the vibe he is gay. He didn’t dress flamboyant, it was just the way he spoke. He seemed nice & after about 15 min I came to the realization that it’s tinder and I don’t owe him anything. The drinks took forever to come, I just told him I had a long day and something felt kinda off, it was nice to meet him & I dipped out. He was about to follow me out, I told him to stay put to make sure the waiter didn’t charge him but truthfully I didn’t want him to follow me to my car/look at my plate. He msged me after saying he wasn’t sure what happened & hoped I got home safe, I just deleted the app. Lesson learnt: moving fwd I’ll ALWAYS do a phone screening before meeting.

I’m in the early talking stage, we both have been messaging daily for a little over a week through dating app & he replies to my message within a few hours on Sunday. I overthought it & took it as a lack of interest since he’d usually reply within the hr, I eventually talked myself into replying to him last night so yes I took a little over 24 hrs to reply. And he answers right away, but my thought is if he was really interested wouldn’t he have followed up after noticing I took a whole day to reply? Now I sent the last message around midnight & I’m waiting for a reply. We’re supposed to meet Thurs evening for dinner so let’s see if he actually follows up to finalize.

I was talking to this guy for about a month. We met online dating. I was in the process of moving during that month so I did give him a heads up for the first few weeks I wouldn't have been able to meet up. He still asked me to hang out the week I was moving and I thought I could have fit it in but I told him I was too busy. I asked if we could video chat or call over the phone. He said no.

Well, then when rescheduling a date. I asked if he wanted to meet before his nightshift for a quick coffee since it was the first time we were meeting each other. He said no. I asked if he wanted to do it on his day off and he said no, he is streaming and sleeping.

So literally the week I'm moving, he decides he wants to move too. I moved only like 5 miles and he was moving 30 miles away. So I told him since he was moving farther away we should talk on the phone more often... he said no.

Then I sent him a selfie all dolled up, trying to flirt with him. He goes I don't like your red lip stick.

Anyway, I thought since we had been talking so long I be respectful and end things because I was tired of him turning me down. I told him I thought it was best we go our separate ways.

Now, based upon how he constantly saying no and only wanting to text me wouldn't it make sense to think he wasn't that into me?