This woman I’m dating is somewhat of a poor communicator and I’m not sure if it’s because she lost attraction for me or she simply is like this regularly. For the first 3 weeks of seeing each other it was amazing. Sex was great, kept telling me how much she liked me a vise versa. Recently we had a fallout and she’s been more distant and wanted to step back. She’s ignored my hangouts a few times and now after a small chat we’ve come to understand to step back and communicate better.
I asked her about her schedule this weekend and she told me she was going out with friends today and nothing regarding the following days. So I asked her again and she said she’s going for drinks with a gay best friend and his boyfriend, but waiting for them to confirm.
I said depending on timing I’d be down to hangout later on. She said sounds great and I’ll keep you posted. My buddy’s told me to come watch UFC tomorrow so I could technically do that but then I’d have to be on my toes to leave when she wants to go wherever. Obviously I’m thinking with my dick here but would be nice to take her somewhere else for an hour depending how late and then go back to her place to have some fun. Ideally I’d take her out the whole night and do fun shit but do I extend the date for other day, which she could get mad at if she wants to see me, or just take the late date and have fun for the small portion of the night
I asked her about her schedule this weekend and she told me she was going out with friends today and nothing regarding the following days. So I asked her again and she said she’s going for drinks with a gay best friend and his boyfriend, but waiting for them to confirm.
I said depending on timing I’d be down to hangout later on. She said sounds great and I’ll keep you posted. My buddy’s told me to come watch UFC tomorrow so I could technically do that but then I’d have to be on my toes to leave when she wants to go wherever. Obviously I’m thinking with my dick here but would be nice to take her somewhere else for an hour depending how late and then go back to her place to have some fun. Ideally I’d take her out the whole night and do fun shit but do I extend the date for other day, which she could get mad at if she wants to see me, or just take the late date and have fun for the small portion of the night
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She's just keeping you around as a spare/backup. If the sex is great then maybe that's worth it to you, but don't fool yourself into thinking this is something that it isn't.
Really ey? Was messaging her all evening about making a plan. She said she’s going and I told her let’s make a for sure plan or move it to a different day. She said for sure and we can always hangout earlier this week. She clearly wants to hang out, she’s just busy. But definitely in the last week putting other people before me.
Guess it worked out then. Good on ya!
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