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I think most people subscribe to the conventional wisdom: once a cheater, always a cheater. And if their partner cheated, they would immediately end their relationship. But some people say that they would try to forgive and continue the relationship, and especially if there are children involved.

I have never cheated on a partner, but I had two partners cheat on me. The first time, my girlfriend cheated with my roommate, and then they both confessed to me so they could shed some of their guilt. At that point, I decided that I had no future with the girl, but I remained with her just so I could use her for sex. And what was left of the relationship had no pretense of being exclusive. This happened about 44 years ago. If it happened now, I would respond with an immediate and total break up.

The second time, I was already in the process of a divorce when I learned that my wife had cheated while travelling a few months previously. We were already living separately so there was nothing I needed to do.

So, I've never forgiven a cheater and tried to return to a monogamous relationship. Have you? If so, did they cheat on you again? Are you still together or did you break up for some other reason?

here's my advice to those of you who still cares about the Truth: save money, maintain & build up your local communities, hope for the best no matter what, prepare for the worst just in case. Maybe, & ill be doing this myself, get involved more.

the people who are going to be most surprised to most of the bad things that are likely to happen these next few years are the gullible maga types themselves. They’ll be harmed greatly, their wallets, their jobs & possibly their lives. I sure hope they’ll snap out of it before for their own safety.

But just recall what happened during the pandemic when over half a million people died in the US. The hardest hit communities were in deep red areas because they were sold & believed the big lie that vaccines & masks didn’t work or another common one was ‘I didn’t get a vaccine & i made it fine’. completely missing the danger he/she was in & to others around him by refusing something as basic & scientifically sound as taking a vaccine to protect themself just in case. These people we’re playing russian roulette daily especially ifthey were regularly around others in close quarters. The rest understood & were no doubt still harmed but in most cases not as hard as the deep red parts were.

anyways what im saying is expect more lies, big lies, told to us by Trump & his cabinet of miscreant loyal followers who will not question him or go against anything he wants. The people listening to me & others who understand the danger he poses will get it & be more prepared. For your sakes please plan accordingly. i want us all to make it through this together. its the MAGA followers who will be hit the hardest when/if the worst of Trumps policies successfully goes through. Even if its unsuccessful it may still hurt us.

Again please dont misunderstand me i want us all to live & thrive together peacefully but lies especially by our elected leaders have dire consequences! there's no way around that.

After all, the state of current affairs would then be under the Trump Presidency or in my mind my logic goes "people dont want to hear blame about yesterday, they want to know who to blame today" - you know how politicians always blame the previous incumbents for things that happen after they've left office or incumbency lol 😆 ah well. I for one am enjoying as a leftie these remaining months of the Biden Administration, I for one was sad the Democrats lost. Sigh 😔😭 I'm not American.