Search Results: he was the one who broke up with me

Why does my relationship that ended two weeks back makes me question myself as a person?

My ex (27M) and I (28) broke up two weeks back due to distance and constant bickering. He didn’t want to work on the relationship anymore and I had a hard time letting go. I now in my heart know it was the right decision...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex-boyfriend doesn't want to leave me, what should I do in this situation?

My boyfriend wanted to break up. Of course, I made mistakes, but I could never get used to the relationship. After the breakup, he became a lover with another girl. By the way, we were working at the same workplace. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

As a kid, did you ever get punished for shit you never did?

I got it ALL THE TIME just about everywhere I went! Being the oldest of the 4 kids, without knowing it, it was dumped onto my head to be the one that sets the example for the younger kids in the family but, any time I...

FunkyMonkee

Master Age: 58

Girl's Behavior

How do I not regret a relationship because it's hard to not hate someone who broke up with you?

My ex said she loved me but broke up and said we're too different after about a year! I feel resentful and hateful towards that stupidity, and it's hard to not regret having know her. I do take a lot of lessons with me...

hardboiledink

Xper 5 Age: 35

Why do I have a heavy heart after a breakup?

My ex and I broke up 3 weeks back, there was a lot of fights as we were in LDR. I begged to fix things and he just made up his mind that we should move on and prioritize peace. It hurts so much, how can someone who claims...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is wrong with me if I'm not attracted to guys who are taller than I am, but I'm more attracted to shorter guys?

In my previous experience with some guys that were taller than me i did write a one love letter to ask a guy out of high school but i did get rejected to. The other two taller guys that i met through out college and one...

SeaStorm1

Xper 5 Age: 27

Why does my ex still believe he was the victim in are break up?

I dated this guy for 3/4 years on and off. We met when we were both 18 and he was my first love. Everything was amazing to begin with, it was just me and him and he was so kind and we were so close. I knew deep down it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend kind of behaves a little suspicious at times - what should I do?

My boyfriend overall seems like one of the good ones. He is good to me, has never hit me and hasn't even really ever yelled at me. We've had a couple disagreements, but we've been able to just talk them out instead of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Exploring his Options Or Just Not Into Me?

I met this guy through a mutual friend and we instantly seemed attracted to each other. He would always hold eye contact with me or try to be around me, or talk to me. He’s always laughing around me and smiling. He would...

Mhmmmalreadykno

Xper 5 Age: 24

Girl friendzoned me out of the blue?

Could anyone give me advice or opinions?- So, I’ve been getting close with someone new for a few months now and then out of nowhere she drops the bomb, saying let's stick to being just friends…. Before that we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Would you date a guy who’s got trauma from being a victim of domestic violence growing up?

it’s a hypothetical question Would you date a guy who’s been the victim of domestic violence and is trying to turn his life around but he has PTSD. His PTSD is very minor and only arises in certain situations. He is on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

it’s a hypothetical question Would you date a guy who’s been the victim of domestic violence and is trying to turn his life around but he has PTSD. His PTSD is very minor and only

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Ask a crush second time?

Hi, I have had a crush for a year and half. I have one day the courage to ask her out, but unfortunately she has had a boyfriend at the time abd rejected me. I kept still being friendly with her and learned recently she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Should or would you ask again?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How to deal with toxic/controlling/homophobic mother?

Ok, So I have a mother. She is in her 50's and all she does is control everything. I'm about to be 17 and I can't wear makeup, go out with friends, get a job, or even do the permit test that I've been begging to do. I...

runitupkai

Xper 2 Age: 19

Why would a man ask you to send him lots of messages?

We had a situationship but since we live within hours and he acts like I’m the one who’s supposed to chase him I broke up with him and rather be his friend. I don’t mind helping him making someone else jealous since at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he ghosting when he was literally asking to meet my parents?

This boy and I have been together pretty on off for close to 4 years. Recently he started talking about how he wants to meet my family and how he wants me to meet his. We had a small convention about it and I told him I'm...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He's ghosting me after asking for our families to meet?

Ladydumptruck

Xper 4 Age: 27