I got pregnant with my now ex, at first we both didn’t want to have a baby, but then I changed my mind, but I couldn’t tell him the truth and even tho every time I tried to tell him the truth he would say don’t upset and brush it off, the day I decided to told him I was pregnant he threatened me saying he would make my life difficult obviously I panicked and got scared and said I was just joking till I finally broke up, but my gut feeling was telling me do not hide it from him he deserve to know and just to make it clear I dont néed any money from him and I told him he was very angry calling me all sort of name saying I am a liar, we still sleeping together and lied to him bottom line he doesn’t want anything to do with me but he said he would take responsibility of the baby and he want to give him name fair enough I agree but when it comes to me he wouldn’t trust me even tho he saw that I regret for lying to him, and he asked when is my next appointment and he will come with me then I do not hear from him he sent me a rude message and manage to get hold of him somehow as we live in the same area apparently he phone got stolen and it wasn’t him who send this message and he told me again he would be there for the baby I have emailed him about appointment etc he never once got back to me or come to my house or whatever and now I find out he change number which very stupid of him because if I wanted to find him I know exactly where he lives. My question is what do I do is been a week since he found I’m pregnant and I am very hurt about him changing the number and not getting back to me when he was the one who said he will be there for the baby
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And I forgot to say he bare going out and apparently he also told me he’s getting with girls
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I'd just contact him via email and maybe even postal mail where he has to sign for it (and you keep a record) indicating that you are going to have the baby and want him to be a part of the baby's life and also that you will update him via email because he changed his number and didn't tell you.
At this point, you need to protect yourself while making it clear you do want him involved.
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If he changed his number and didn't respond to emails, it's pretty clear to me that he doesn't want anything to do with the baby.
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Dump him and abort your baby.
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