I got it ALL THE TIME just about everywhere I went!
Being the oldest of the 4 kids, without knowing it, it was dumped onto my head to be the one that sets the example for the younger kids in the family but, any time I tried, they'd ignore me, cause trouble & then I'D get the spanking for it!!
We were ALL repeatedly taught the same rules! I followed them but the others didn't! Yet, when they disobeyed them, I got punished!
I'm in the kitchen doing homework, my sister's in the living room watching t. v., dad's in the dining room playing cards or doing a crossword puzzle. My sister gets up & walks out the front door to play leaving the lights and t. v. on in the living room and the front doors wide open! About 10:00 later, dad gets up to get a beer, sees no one in the living room with the t. v. and lights still on, notices the doors are wide open, starts yelling that this was done and wants to know why and who did it. Nearest I can tell it was that worthless bitch so, I tell him that Karen was the last one in there. So, he starts yelling at ME for not getting up, going into the living room and turning off the t. v. and lights FOR her and then closing the doors!! "YOU'RE the eldest! YOU should go in and "pick up" after her!" I'm thinking, "YOU'RE the parent! YOU should be the one teaching her not to do this shit in the first place!! You never seem to have any problem telling ME if I make a mistake!!"
If something goes wrong, I got blamed for it!! AFTER I got punished for it, THEN they'd listen while I told them who was really responsible but, they, that did it, never got reprimanded for it!
In school, I'm just quietly sitting in class or study hall doing my homework, or whatever when, some other kid comes up to me & starts picking a fight with me! Of course, I'm gonna fight back, if I need to but, when someone in charge breaks up the fight & takes us to the principal's office, I'M the one that gets blamed for starting the fight & I'M the one that gets punished for it!!
actually my feelings got ignored whenever my sibling did something that made me upset. the reason i know my feelings were ignored is because my parents allowed it to happen again and again. because i never did anything wrong that would get me punished. so i'm not sure which is worse.
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I'm the oldest and then there's my brother and my sister is the youngest. Up until a few years ago my sister and me would always get my brother in trouble especially if my little sister said he did something to her he'd get punished for it. I guess him being the only boy it was easy to get him in trouble. We don't do that anymore.
A couple times I got punished for finishing fights that the other person started
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Yes mostly in school. Spent a lot of time in remedial learning or detention …
I was the scapegoat child for my mother, and brother. So yeah, all the time.
My father used too until my parents realised that after they sent me to my room I'd masturbate as spanking turns me on, I guess it made them feel weird.
Even now spanking gets me going.Yes, and it’s not fair to be punished for something I didn’t do
Few times. Once In school I got pushed by a girl, I pushed her back and I got in trouble for it for assaulting her. Wtf.
yes, few times
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