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Search Results: did i mess up
Does anyone else wish to get married and raise a family yet know that that is not the life for them?
I had a really messed up childhood. It will take the rest of my life to fix myself. I wish I could have a kid and raise it but I'm broken. Even if the mom wasn't there anymore I would happily raise a child by myself....
Anonymous
(30-35) Was I stupid to reach out to her about my Depression?
all my life i have seen on tv & online saying if your depressed reach out to someone. i have a slight case autism but its not that bad as i was able to hold down a job for six years. but working 60 hours a week at the...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can my ex girlfriend fully reconnect with me?
We were in a relationship for 4 years and I messed up last year by cheating on her and we broke up. We want to come back together but it just isn’t working well for her. Though I’ve changed and she has noticed that, her...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would it be messed up if I rehomed my cat now?
I showed some intrest when we adopted her, so the cat may be partly be mine, but it was ultimately my moms decision. We adopted a kitten from the humane society about a year ago. My mom had a car that passed away a couple...
Anonymous
(30-35) So a friend of mine just left a 2 year relationship with a narcissist, and 1 month later started dating her best friend? Who was also the rebound?
My friend used her best friend she is dating now as a rebound once or twice in the past when she and the narcissist took a break a while back when they were fighting. She slept with her best friend to get over the now ex,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I allow do is suffer?
It all started when I had to live with my dad after 2008 and he abused me the whole time I lived with him all the way to age 15. That damaged so bad and the whole time I was hated at schools, churches, and almost...
Anonymous
(25-29) First several dates?
I matched with a guy in bis 40, and he wanted to visit the same day, which I refrained as I was not ready. We chatted for a month, and in between, he wanted to visit, but I was not still ready to meet anyone. Our chat...
Mehrsia
Xper 2 Age: 48 Is it normal for guy friends to do this?
I have a guy friend who teases me a lot, sometimes there is subtle flirtation here and there but generally we're close friends. There's a girl that he is interested in but for some reason he is not pursuing anything with...
DabieberRoyalty
Xper 6 Age: 30 Is this another fine mess Ukraine has gotten us in to?
A Russian controlled nuclear power plant inside Ukraine has been attacked by drones, claim officials at the site. The Zaporizhzhia nuclear power plant was taken by Vladimir Putin's forces early in the war and the area has...
Daniela1982
Master Age: 38 Possibility , boundaries and how do I?
The possibility of being more than friends from a guy’s perspective. Giving my ex boundaries (which is new for me) and I asked him if there could be more than friends between us in the future. He answered it’s a...
livishay
Xper 2 Age: 35 Do you think I'm kind of a jerk for not returning the company car, because my boss hasn't asked for it yet?
About a month ago, my car took a crap. I asked my boss if I could borrow a company car while mine is getting fixed. She said yes, and then she dropped it off at my house. To be honest, I've been dealing with a lot, and...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Kaizen Way, AKA the method of making changes in baby steps. How can it change your life for the better?
The whole baby steps thing is all about how our minds are basically allergic to change. For our emotional brain, any change is like a red flag for potential failure, a threat to our cozy comfort zone, and a giant...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Why can’t men make up their minds?
This guy says he likes me and is trying to get to know me. Then he says he isn’t looking for a relationship but is attracted to me and would be OK with being casual then says I don’t think casual is a good idea but I’m OK...
Abc123hell0
Xper 3 Age: 23 Guys, What does it mean when a player doesn't give you a love confession, instead a motivational message?
Long story short I’ve met this guy, he’s a very well known player, he’s ambitious with his future and know precisely what he wants, I also do and we both have similar goals in life. For April fools I asked him if he’d...
Anonymous
(18-24) Repost - help! Why did he go silent on me?
I have a huge crush on a colleague. We admitted we liked each other recently (while slightly drunk) and we flirt/tease each other. There is always a lot of eye contact involved and he will always glance at both eyes as...
Abbielouise07
Xper 6 Age: 32 How do I with pancreatic cancer and my husband's weaponized incompetence? I can't turn my type a personality off?
I can't do anything because I am really sick. He has to drive and do everything. I tore him a new one when I got home from the hospital. the house was a mess. I hate the way he drives and parks. The avocados he bought...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Why does it seem like New York City and San Francisco are more messed up than they used to be?
Both cities were fantastic cities in the early 2000s. Today both cities are trash.
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do Indian men get stereotyped?
Let’s say 1% of Indian men send really bad messages to women, how do we ALL get labelled as creeps? Why do actions of others affect me? Why aren’t we stereotyped for being highly intelligent and hardworking? Cause that’s...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
How would you feel if you were the product of an affair?
It's been a couple years since I found out how my parents really met. My mother was married to someone else. I'll refer to him as Simon. She cheated on Simon and got pregnant by her lover. It led to a divorce...
Anonymous
(30-35) We are always budding heads, what do we need to do to save our relationship?
My boyfriend and are have been together for a year and half. We have the best times together when we arnt fighting or arguing. Most our disagreements start with a debate on a topic and because we are both passionate about...
Anonymous
(30-35) 