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• She got into relationship with a guy with from different city.
• She isn't generally available for chat or call. She rarely initiated any chat from her own side and if guy messaged her she replied after quite a long time stating that she is very busy with domestic work, her parents and baby sitting her brother's kid and supporting her brother's pregnant wife.
• She is very busy with house work and that she keeps her phone on silent mode generally.
• She has a habit of sleeping early by 9:30 in the night and waking up by around 8 am then doing household work. Then sleep for three hours in the noon 2 pm to 5 pm. Then work again.
• Currently she can't focus on the guy. Her priority is her parents, brother's kids as of now.
• When she'll move in with the guy she'll give him all the time but not now.

So what can be said about her behaviour, her feelings for the guy and should the guy continue with her despite asking her to give him more time?

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 years and our plan is to get married by December.
My girlfriend is dead set against us having kids. She doesn’t want kids but wants me to be a second dad to her friend’s kids. She’s even leaving her will to her friend’s kids.

I’ve never fancied the idea of kids. I don’t even like kids, accept recently I’ve been thinking it would be cool to see a mini me. What’s even worse is she’s pregnant right now and has an abortion appointment booked.

I’m ok with her not wanting kids, her body her choice. But I don’t wanna be responsible for someone else’s kids either. I never wanted to date a woman with kids, but I kinda think this is worse than dating a single mom.

So please tell me. Am I selfish? Or is she?