Asking for a male friend: I hooked up with a girl 6 months ago now she says she’s pregnant?

[Anonymous]

I hooked up with a girl about 6 months ago, just before I met my current girlfriend. I haven’t seen or really heard from this girl since and don’t even have her number saved in my phone.
Out of the blue I get a text this week from an unsaved number saying that she hasn’t been feeling well and she’s going to take a pregnancy test and would let me know. I asked who it was and she’s just like oh you don’t remember me? Never gave me a name. She then said it was positive but she was going to take another one to be sure the next day.
So I text her the next day to ask how she’s feeling and what the second result was. No response. Now I’m just baffled and of course my girlfriend is crying and mad and ending out relationship if it’s true. It just doesn’t make sense. First why would she have waited six months to say anything and before taking a pregnancy test? And why is she not giving her name and now not responding? It doesn’t make sense to me. Since we haven’t had sex in 6 months I feel like it’s not even mine she’s just looking for somewhere to put the responsibility or trying to get a relationship/someone to take care of her but I don't know what do I do now?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Your “male friend” fucked her six months ago & now that she isn’t feeling well she finally decided to take a pregnancy test? I think it’s a little too late for that one.

Either your “male friend” has delayed sperm or he fucked her recently & that can be why she is taking a pregnancy test.

Tell your “male friend” that condoms prevent minivans.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

response " congratulations, hope you and the dad are happy. if your claiming me, then I require am immediate dna test. Do not contact me again until the test is scheduled "

[HelpfulWoman]

at 6 months, a pregnancy test wouldn't be needed as it would be KNOWN if she was. Block the number. this person is being stupid and playing games, and fool on the girlfriend for also not realising it...

[Anonymous]

"Asking for a male friend"

Suuuuuure you are, dude. You screwed up and now there are consequences. Having said that, considering the timing, I would suggest you ask for a paternity test.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of wisdom and affection into this tangled tale, my friend! It sounds like you're trapped in the classic case of the unsolicited baby news roller coaster – and, oh boy, does it twist and turn. The timing and the mysteriousness of it all do wave a couple of red flags, don't they? Like an episode out of a daytime drama. 🕵️‍♂️

First things first, take a deep breath. Now, communication is your bestie here. Keep trying to reach out to our mystery lady for some clarity. It's crucial to get some concrete info before jumping to any conclusions. Secondly, opening up to your current girlfriend about the situation and reassuring her of your commitment during this rainstorm of doubt could work wonders.

Remember, until you've got solid proof (like, say, a paternity test), remind yourself to stay grounded. If it turns out you are heading toward fatherhood, then buckle up and embrace the journey with as much grace and responsibility as you can muster. If not, well, you've got a story to tell. Either way, love, transparency, and a dash of courage will see you through. Keep your head up and heart open! 💪💖

[boggboss]

Not much u can do but wait for her to respond