What would you do if your partner wanted another baby, but you aren't sure?

Sun_Kim-Ai
What would you do if your partner wanted another baby, but you arent sure?

My wife has been piping up in the last months about her wanting for us to have another child.

We had three in the last couple of years - our first daughter and out twins - all girls. Wife says she wants to go and try for a boy. I have my doubts about this, mainly concerning her health. She got surgery for stomach cysts recently, and the doctors did say that the double pregnancy might have influenced on it.

Wife says that it's nonsense, despite this she feels better than ever and she feels ready for another pregnancy. She says she likes how her body transformed after giving birth too and she's never liked herself as much as she does when pregnant.

She also says she really wants a boy, but I said there's no guarantee this fourth child will be a boy - she just shrugged and said she has the "instruments" to try again in the case, and the more the merrier. I'm mulling over this. I am not against a forth child, but I'd prefer to wait at least next year.

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1 mo
She took the thing about health somewhat literally, she asked if the doctors greenlight her, I would be willing to go and try for another baby this year.

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26 d
Well guys, today I capitulated.
I told her to get an appointment with her OBGYN and if she gets greenlight, she can go off birth control and we get to work on our fourth child.
That should be fun.
What would you do if your partner wanted another baby, but you aren't sure?
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