Search Results: is that too weird

Do intellectually gifted men fall in love with women of average intelligence?

I chatted with our new neighbor once at his place for 2 hours and it turned out that he was intellectually gifted and went to college at the age of 16. After I went home he texted me that he was fascinated by me and that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I told this girl that I'm talking to others and her response was confusing?

I (22F) have been seeing this girl (21F) for around a month and a half. She was very busy due to college finals for the last few weeks. I asked her out after they were over, and she said that this sounds nice but she has...

elisweee

Xper 1 Age: 24

Girl's Behavior

Sometime I get visions, what to do?

sometimes i get visions about future and i learned to act by it. my last vision was about getting killed by a someone in a car accident. and after a day i met her. i seduced her and became her boyfriend and impregnated...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I feel like she’s trying to force the friendzone on me after I’ve walked away; why?

Coworker first few months were: told me she had a boyfriend then proceeded to flirt with me (compliments “You’re an angel, you’re sharp, you’re photogenic,” , collar fixing, commenting on my outfits and then coming into...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My avoidant ex and I are new coworkers. Is it going to be smooth or a bumpy ride at workplace?

We both are avoidants. He has been upset with me for rejecting him. It is so bad that he is mad at me after years. He also has a weird obsession with his power over me. In other words, super possessive and even the hint...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Ex ignored me until he got married?

Now that he's married (last 2 years) he doesn't miss a chance to greet me and gives some stares too, before that I couldnt even see him now it looks like he makes himself available which i find weird and he also shows off...

hellohruu

Xper 6 Age: 24

Dating

Would you be weirded out by this answer too, when someone asks what you’re looking for?

I’m purple & the guy is grey…😬

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m purple & the guy is grey…😬

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Guy's Behavior

Why it felt awkward when we both agreed for relationship over text?

my guy friend is one year younger than me. He has been texting me daily for two months. We joke a lot. And we flirt too. I get butterflies whenever he does that. He talks dirty too sometimes. One day he randomly said if i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Is it weird to enjoy dating my former babysitter?

We've been on quite a few dates now and I've really enjoyed them. She recently introduced me to her friends as her boyfriend, and that made me very happy. I had a crush on her when she babysat me, but was too afraid to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Girls, Would you go to a guys house if he hasn’t washed his bed sheets in 7 months?

Or would this be too weird

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Would you be scared to admit to a potential partner that you like WWE?

Stupid question, I’m a big WWE fan but I’ve never told any women I’ve dated because I’m scared they’ll think it’s too violent/ immature and be weirded out

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Can you trigger a girl into physical and verbal abuse?

So when something would happen her go to response would be that I triggered her often the things that triggered her were directly connected to my autism which she could accuse me of just making excuses. When the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Are attractive women always popular even if they are not social or just weird/boring?

I feel like people don’t want to engage with me and label me as weird for the smallest things like breathing too loudly, walking too fast etc. as if they are desperately looking for excuses to not like me without even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Some women legit can't wear bras?

Okay so I remember one time some girl told me that she couldnt wear a bra because the nips were too sensitive and it would get annoying or whatnot and I am now remembering this because a post on here reminded me of it,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

How to handle this guy after things got weird?

I started seeing a guy I used to date years ago a few weeks back. We've hung out many times, usually from 7pm-7am, have had lots of sex, and also had some connected intimate moments too. He's told me he likes me, thinks...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Health & Fitness

Does anyone else have this issue or have had it?

So I tried with a tampon can’t do it and hurts I’m worried I won’t be able to insert anything but I feel fine and have no other issues I get my period and everything but it makes me self conscious because everyone else I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

I’m scared to talk to guys because I think they’ll ignore me because I’m average. How do you talk to guys and do guys usually ignore average girls?

I’ve never had male friends or male family members aside from my dad or much older male family members. I have 0 socialization with guys my ages. They never speak to me so I never speak to them. Other girls my age have...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Does this make me a bitch?

There’s this sweet guy. He’s nice to talk to and very kind and funny but I see him as just that. A friend, nothing more. I don’t mind compliments. I appreciate them. I understand I’m not owed compliments so anytime I get...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Do you tend to value men or women's opinions more? Why?

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's all ears and ready to take the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's

Anyways, it made me question whose opinions I tend to value? I am very stubborn and not many people can get through to me. I can only think of one girl who has just really gotten through to me but I guess I notice that it’s mostly been guys, thus I value men’s opinions more.

I don't know if my guy simply values the male view more because he’s so insecure and intimidated by other men, which he says all the time. But I value the guys perspective because I want to know how to captivate, communicate with, and better understand the gender that I’m attracted to.

Some may call that a “pick me” but I don’t consider it the same thing. I feel pick me’s seek validation while I more so want advice and guidance. Who better to understand a guy I’m into than a guy himself?

If I wanted advice on how to improve my appearance, dress style or to better control my emotions, then I’d seek a woman’s advice since we better understand one another’s insecurities and reactions. I rarely ask other women for advice on guys though because so many take it as competition to go after that same guy. Its so weird. Girlcode always seems to go out the window.

Another thing could be that I grew up looking up to my grandpa more than anyone else. I also got along best with my male cousin and my uncle. My friends have always been 90% guys. Like, my mom held it down for a bit but her inconsistent behavior and broken promises really got to me. So I stopped looking up to her. Maybe she, my grandma and a bunch of flaky female friends and cousins ruined it for other women too.

Some men have wronged me but never as many men as women. I guess same can be said for my boyfriend since he feels more women have wronged him yet all I ever see these days is men treating him badly. #FeelFreeToList

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Dating

My friend jokes about stealing the guys I date. Should I tell her this is not on?

Why is my friend going after guys I’m involved with? So my friend is currently dating a guy I used to talk to. They’re exclusive but I didn’t deep it too much because I am over him. But recently, I got involved with a new...

Anonymous

(25-29)