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He knows I used to have a crush on him years ago but he still keeps glancing at me to see if I look at him. Are some men really that desperate for attention from women they are not attracted to?

I must say I am not sure how much drunk he actually was. He wasn't completely wasted but he definitely had some beers and maybe some other alcohol. I myself wasn't drunk, I only had two vodka shots.

What I'm wondering about is whether he did find me attractive prior to this party of ours where the kiss and touching happened? Or how else does the drunkeness work? Do "moderately drunk" guys kiss just ANY girl? There were other, also cute and pretty, girls around, why did he go after me instead of one of them? He complimented me, specifically my hair, here and there kept his arm around me and when I was saying goodbye I could just feel he was up to something with that cheeky grin of his so I had tried to just kiss his cheeks and then leave, but he swiftly pulled me to him and kissed me (no tongue, just a proper smooch but no tiny peck either).

Then he promised jokingly he's gonna wreck me in the gym once he comes back 😅

I'm not interested in him, he is married I think, he's cute even tho he's older (was quite handsome when younger not gonna lie).

I think he may like me or at least find me attractive because I just realized he kept teasing in his own special style pretty much every training session of his.

For context, we met up for first time from app yesterday & had two calls earlier this week. I was questioning if he was interested to begin with bc with the calls earlier this week, he’s the one that ended them in less than 30 min. And yesterday, he ended the dinner too because he “knew I had somewhere to go & didn’t want to hold me back” (told him I had to go out of town with family & would need to leave in the night). I haven’t heard from him since, he drove 45 min to meet me at a local restaurant, paid for the bill, walked me to my car & hugged me twice (in my opinion all common courtesy). He asked most of the questions, by now I’m just used to the guy reaching out maybe an hr after meeting up telling me they want to see me again or at least wanting to make sure I got home safely. I deleted the app yesterday but still have him on discord, he shared his # when we spoke on the phone earlier this week but I hid mine for safety reasons. Honestly I’m not interested in seeing him again, I just hate rejection. Also when we were msging earlier on, we didn’t talk consistently throughout the day like I’m used to with other people I’d speak with before. I’ve become lower effort in that sense bc I’m not as invested but if a guy is interested he’d pursue. Last thing I’ll add is he asked me maybe 2-3x if I had new years plans & kept telling him not sure yet/might do something with family. I can’t anymore 🙄. I’m giving it a week & if I don’t hear back from him, I’m deleting him from discord.