Search Results: rejecting a friend

I find some men on instagram attractive but my friends said not to dm first. Is dming a man first as a woman actually desperate and embarrassing?

To be clear these are men who I am mutuals with meaning we are both following each other but I post and they’ve haver shown interest / dmed me first. My friends say I should just wait for a man to message me first but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy friend rejected me but still seems like he likes me?

A older guy colleague of mine confronted my guy friend whom I have a crush on if he has feelings for me because my guy friend would repost my stories on his instagram and we hang out with each other a lot. My guy friend...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys really reject a girl this way or it just me?

I've liked this guy for close to a year now and we met at church and became friends. I got tired of the mixed signals and bottling how I feel up... So I told him last night. That I liked him, that I've always liked him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it so hard to get attention from men when i’m attractive?

i know i’m pretty but like i get no dms on facebook or instagram. men don’t approach men in public at all and if i friend a guy i find attractive on facebook 80% of the time they reject my request! what’s wrong with me or...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it weird that I am 16 and have a crush on a 13 year old?

I turn 16 in two weeks, I am born in 2007. I have a small crush on a boy in my drama classes, which is 13 (born 2010). I feel like a creep and like a p3do for liking him, because of the age difference (although it is not...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

Do you believe Chinese Canadians care about their school work?

I would say that 96% of the Chinese people I know in Canada went to top schools like McGill, Queens, the University of Toronto, or Waterloo. In my social circle if you have a bachelors from U of T and not a Graduate...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

What's your opinion on my story?

I liked a guy my whole entire senior year in hs. I've known since forever that he's not a good guy but hey I just wanted to give it the benefit of the doubt. I involved myself with him by texting him first every single...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I a great catch?

I'm 23 years old, I'm in my third year of college and my major is Journalism/Creative Writing. I want to become a professional video game writer/director in the future. I'm a massive gaming fan and I have an undying...

WritersBlock00

Xper 2 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

Girls, I need your help?

So there is a girl in my university I like and yesterday I told her that she can sit with me and my friend if she is ever alone and she accepted. But today I offered her to sit with us again since she was alone but she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hot and cold behavior, hiding a relationship, and how to make sense of a girl who seems depressed?

A girl gave strong indications of being interested. Asked her out and she said yes. Then found out she was hiding a relationship. I was honest about my feelings for her and the confusion. Since then, its been awkward and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I got rejected, will a girl eventually say yes?

I got rejected 3 times in total this month. I have back problems, autism and no friends, i look like an average guy though. I just want a girlfriend thats all i want. I feel like never showering again and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I let my boyfriend stay with his ex best friend as well as ex? Am I being insecure?

My boyfriend is going to meet his best friend who is his ex and was his best friend, during their teenage. She liked him and proposed to him first. He reject, slowly then he caught feelings and proposed to her. They got...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I just stfu and move on?

Long story short, my friend invited me to a cabin. Everyone was drunk including myself, there were limited places to sleep and I ended up cuddling up with one of the guys there. We started making out and next thing I...

Angel_cakess

Xper 1 Age: 30

Love problem with a guy friend?

We have a very tumultuous history with an infp guy. He once worked with me for 6 months and during that time I fell for him. We had long long conversations almost everyday. Only to find out he had a partner during that...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

Was my advice stupid?

There are 2 women I met when I was doing a business course 2 years ago. Anyways, we became friends and meet up every now and then. I thought we would all talk and share details of our lives. But it seemed they were...

lilyanony1

Yoda Age: 35

Why do guys think that they can make any girl fall for them? is it just me or this really is a red flag?

like some of these guys i know neither have superior or even average looks nor any academic or any other achievements. i dont mean to say that these all are necessary, but the way they expect a girl to have a good body,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

like some of these guys i know neither have superior or even average looks nor any academic or any other achievements. i dont mean to say that these all are necessary, but the way they

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Why did he text me years after our date / hookup?

i went on 2 dates with a guy in 2020. we had sex twice. I lost my virginity to him. I liked him because he was funny, humorous, witty. but he was also rude, inconsiderate, perverted, egotistical, arrogant, man whore. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, What should I do?

I was in a situation ship. We talked for two years. We liked each other. But it got to much and I didn't know what to do. So I broke Contact. I wasn't very happy. I cried the whole night. And I kinda saw that he wasn't...

Giralashowdown134

Xper 2 Age: 19