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I believe most women still deep down prefer that men approach them first. They don’t like the guesswork and risk of the rejection. They also like the attention. When someone approaches you it puts you in the drivers seat to accept or reject. It makes you feel wanted and valuable.

However I do believe more women are approaching men nowadays. However it’s definitely not a 50/50 balance. Only a small (yet growing) minority of women are confident enough to take that risk.

Also a lot girls who say they are “approaching” men are really just getting close to the man’s presence vs. directly talking to him, asking for a number and a date. There is a difference.

I’m 30 and have never dated a girl, I went on one date back when I was 21 and lost my virginity on that date and then I had absolutely nothing for the next 5 years when I made it to 3rd base with a girl who was mutual friends with someone I knew. That was 3 years ago and again, nothing since then. I just feel like at this point, there’s no hope left and that girls won’t want to date someone my age who has so little experience. I have become pretty depressed because of this situation and have even turned to drugs, alcohol, and gambling to numb myself cope with the fact that I might be alone forever. I just think that all girls will reject me for being so inexperienced for a 30 year old.