If you’re a guy who’s never dated at 30, should you give up?
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I was living overseas for 2 years, did you know in certain countries men over the age of 30 are called prime real estate?
I had terrible luck with girls outta high school up until like 25. However, now that I'm around your age girls throw themselves at me. If you apply yourself, you won't be able to keep them off of you
In my opinion the dating life is very hard even for me and I’m a female and not to sound like I’m conceded, but I don’t find myself ugly and I find myself to have an OK personality. And yes, it’s even hard for me to find someone. But I say don’t give up!! I would love to meet a guy that not as experience because at this age, I think that the guy would actually try and appreciate the relationship
At 30 men are just beginning to come into their prime, you have all the time in the world to find someone if that's what you really want, but watch your back, if women suddenly start showing you attention who have in the past ignored you they could just be looking to 'settle' ans love will have little to nothing to do with it.
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Fuck it bud. Dating is garbage. Focus on making your legend, not spreading your seed. The rest will come in perpetuity
How are you financially? Are you in shape? Do you have your own place? Do you have a car? Do you have good social skills? These things matter to most women and if you don't have most of them, its no wonder you haven't had any success
Financially, not good. I’m only doing DoorDash while I go to school online. No I’m not in shape, but working on it. I did weigh 218 and I’m now down to 201 and keeping at it. Yes I have 2 cars. No I don’t have my own place, I still live at home with my parents and I feel like that’s another big issue. I actually got into a fight with them over that last week because I feel like they screwed me over in a way and held me back from getting my own place. Yeah my social skills aren’t bad or anything, but I don’t have any friends right now, but I used to.
I gave up and my mental health has been better for it, my mental health is still attacked daily by people but I'm ok
Stop wasting time and get to it.
But that’s not the only issue, I also still live at home with my parents and I feel like that’s a huge obstacle to dating at my age as well.
Well stop wasting your time complaining and fix the issues that you have. It won't get any better by complaining. Get up and do something about it.
I’m trying, but these things take time and as much as I wish I could, I can’t pick up and move out on my own tomorrow. I feel like my parents really screwed me over and I got into a big fight with them about this last week.
Well that sucks. But do you have a job and can afford moving out?
No, but I’m in school right now. I’m also doing DoorDash as a side hustle to get some money while I go to school. I haven’t been able to do it for the past month though because a scammer hacked my account and I’m still trying to get it sorted out so I can get back to doing it.
Well sounds like you need a priority list for your life. I suggest that dating is fairly low on that list. Finish school, get a job, move out, then dating.
Yeah but the thing wit that is then I will get even older and it will also get even more difficult to date because this situation with being inexperienced at an adult age gets worse and becomes more of a turn off with each year that you age. I might be in my mid 30’s by that point and this will be way worse by then.
you're not a woman. your biological clock isn't ticking. no reason to rush into a relationship with a crappy girl. chances are you're just gonna find crappy girls, if you don't have your shit together. get your shit together, then look for a quality girl, cause then you have better chances. quality girls want an established, competent man who has the "family nest" prepared to have children. doesn't matter if you're 10-20 or even more years older than her. doesn't even matter if you want children or not. female psychology works the same either way.
if you're longing for physical interaction, get a fuck friend. tho for that you probably gotta have to lower your standards a lot.
Give up? Di you ever even start?
No, I’ve never even asked anyone out. I’ve never even asked a girl for her phone number.
No absolutely not.
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