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My friends were fed up with me crying and complaining about not getting respect and people disrespecting me but I don’t do NOTHING about it and they tried helping me stand up for myself but I am too afraid. My guy best friend said, “You know what? We don’t know what to do anymore. I guess you LOVE being treated so badly do you? We tried helping you. I guess you’re too much of a coward to have self respect. You want someone to get into your face huh? Yeah you like when I get in your face don’t you? Don’t you? You wanna man to get into your face and disrespect YOU! That’s what you love.” He got in my face. Then my girl best friend said, “Yeah you LOVE when people disrespect you huh? You want people to yell at you IN YOUR FACE. You wanna be the weak ass woman that has no respect for herself? Yes I will get into your face. YOU won’t anything since YOU DON’T HAVE THE HANDS TO FIGHT!” She got in my face. They kept doing it until I screamed at them to stop and then they said, “Then start standing up for yourself then! Instead of being a coward and acting like a little girl, be a woman and stand up for yourself damn it!”
Don’t you think they were being rude for getting in my face to teach me a lesson?

the musical is the wedding singer and we play the bride and groom. The director suggested we kiss but was optional. We are both teenagers so it’s awkward and we act nervous but smile. I want to stage kiss with him to relieve tension and make the scene more believable.
I also want us to get comfortable with one another, but he has a girlfriend who’s in the show. I want to ask his permission if we could kiss but I’m afraid he won’t cause he has a “gf”. It makes me frustrated cause it’s just acting. I want him to be comfortable with the idea though. How should I approach this? Is this okay? I feel like this will make things more comfortable and more believable. I would really like to kiss him if he’s okay with it. Is it worth asking?